There are things that happen in life that cause emotional wounds… and the ones that we “absorb” from childhood are harder for some to heal. These emotionally painful “spots” affect us as adults, in our relationships with others. We’re wary of each person we potentially get close to, which keeps us from truly experiencing love, and can keep individuals “locked” in a prison of fear. So in essence, these old wounds can negatively affect current behavior.
My experience with this process began with my training in hypnosis (it can be used to consciously change your subconscious behaviors). We were taught that in one in six sessions, a person can get the tools to change negative behavior traits. When I began studying spiritual healing modalities, I found that if the person in question was truly ready, and had done all they could to understand, accept, and forgive, they could “reset” their mind in ONE SESSION! Please note that this is rare, but possible!
To some degree, the nature of the wound becomes important. Are there physical wounds too? When did it happen? These types of episodes require more processing, and more therapy to remove all effects on your behavior. But remain hopeful… these, too, can be removed from negatively affecting your life!
Wounds can come from seemingly minor events, such as a harried mother who does not have time to pick up a crying child. No real fault of the mother, as these things happen. But to a particularly sensitive and small child, this “can” trigger issues that can be assumed as an emotional wound, or perhaps abandonment.
The first step is to realize if you’re experiencing or triggered by an “old wound reaction.” Probe your own mind. Can you see a series of similar “red flags” in your personal history? Do you feel that you should apologize for your behavior? These are clues, and when you start to see a repetitive pattern, you can start the healing process.
There are many times during a psychic reading that someone realizes they overreacted or that they just don’t understand why they reacted in a certain fashion. If these things come up in a reading, perhaps look at other relationships with your psychic to identify other times, too. Once you are aware of that pattern… consciously change it!
What are your favorite healing methods?