True Love and a Soul-to-Soul Connection
You’re in a crowded bar. Suddenly you lock eyes with a mysterious stranger gazing at you from across the room. They seem familiar, yet they’re also like no creature you’ve ever seen before. You introduce yourselves to each each and after a few drinks and a few hours of conversation, you discover that you both own black Labradors, shop at the same hole-in-the-wall Italian market and collect 60’s vinyl. STOP!
This is just like a scene from the dozens of romantic comedies you’ve probably seen, but it’s not how you make a true soul-to-soul connection with someone you’re destined to have a profound relationship with. A true soul connection is not likely to be all sunshine and lollipops.
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True Love Pushes Your Buttons
The story I hear most often from people who have succeeded in forming a meaningful union is that their true love pushed all of their buttons and knocked them out of their comfort zone when they first met. But at the same time, they felt so intrigued that they couldn’t just get up and walk away without finding out how this person affected them so deeply.
To grow in love and to cultivate a lasting relationship requires a partner who pushes you beyond your limitations and forces you to evolve in ways you hadn’t previous considered. They don’t just accept you at face value; they challenge you to want more out of life, to develop your hidden strengths and to pursue your biggest dreams and deepest calling in life. And even though they refuse to support you in staying stuck, and instead challenge you to grow, they still treat you with the utmost love and respect.
True Love Doesn’t Have to be Perfect
Your true love doesn’t say things just to flatter you, lure you in, gain your trust and then let you down. They say the things you don’t always want to hear, but in the most loving way possible. They keep their word and they follow through. They empower you and always have your back. This partner isn’t the perfect person, and doesn’t have to be. But they accept responsibility and make amends when they have made a mistake.
Here are a few signs that indicate you’ve found true love and a soul-to-soul connection:
1. Your true love is more focused on who you want to become rather than who you used to be or what you’ve already accomplished.
2. Your true love supports and encourages you in pursuing your biggest dreams. They don’t feel threatened by your success and don’t make everything about them.
3. Your true love refuses to buy into or enable your bad habits, self-defeating tendencies or self-imposed limitations.
4. Your true love keeps their word and makes amends (quickly) when circumstances prevent them from following through.
5. Your true love treats you with respect, even during an argument.
Just about everyone can give you the kind of fleeting romantic experience that makes your heart skip a beat, but only someone truly special can provide a real relationship that completely rocks your world! Not all romance is the real deal. Is your partner just putting on a show or are they bringing real substance that can build toward a lasting union?