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Separating Fantasy From Reality
If you’re like me, you can’t stand those dating site commercials featuring “couples” who talk about what it feels like to have finally found their soulmates. They tout every common misconception about relationships known to humankind, including “He’s perfect,” “It’s just so easy,” “We do everything together,” and “She’s my missing puzzle piece.” When I was single I thought I needed to feel the same way about someone in order to consider them a soulmate. Now that I am married to my soulmate, I realize these commercials are trying to sell a fantasy. Are you caught up in a romantic fantasy? Psychic Vega ext. 5485 has the dose of reality you’re looking for!
The perfect soulmate connection doesn’t exist, so stop looking for it. I know it’s something you’ve waited for all your life, and once you find it, you think everything will be perfect after that. Well, it won’t be. Vega knows the truth about soulmate relationships. Here’s a list of six truths she wants you to remember while you’re dreaming of or sharing your life with “the one.” Get more personalized advice by contacting a psychic today!
1. He isn’t your “knight in shining armor.”
Vega says “The biggest misconception about soulmate relationships is that people think they’re meeting their knight in shining armor. But that’s not really what happens.” What really happens is that a soulmate comes into your life to help you grow and to teach you a lesson. They’re not here to rescue or fix you. You still have to do all the work. How would you like to be taxed with rescuing someone? And how do you think it makes the person who “needs to be rescued” feel? If you’re not willing to be someone else’s “knight in shining armor,” why should someone be yours?
2. You’re still going to fight.
Soulmates fight all the time. You don’t automatically stop fighting once you realize you’re each other’s soulmate. Jobs get lost, parents die, and there are infidelities. Yes, there’s still plenty to fight over in Soulmate Land. Vega shares, “There are still going to be struggles and there will be obstacles. People want to know why it doesn’t go smoothly. It’s not supposed to.” Fights are a part of any relationship, whether you’re with your soulmate or not. Are they just a fling or is there potential for a deep, soul connection? Vega knows.
3. You have to put up with a lot of crap.
Your threshold for emotional pain and suffering could be much higher if you think you’ve met your soulmate. Vega explains, “They might be your soulmate, but if they’re not in a good spot, you’re going to have to go through a lot just to be with them. And you’ll do it because you believe they’re your soulmate.” Perhaps you’ll see this kind of pain and suffering as a test of your commitment to one another. If you believe someone is your soulmate, you’ll be more willing to “walk through fire” for them.
4. It could be easy to lose yourself.
This truth goes along with the previous one. If your soulmate has a lot of issues or problems, and you are there to support them, it’s pretty easy to lose your sense of self. This is especially true for women. Vega relates, “Women will give up so much if they think they are with their soulmate.” Sure, it’s important to support your soulmate when they are going through a difficult time, but you shouldn’t support them to the point where you put your life on hold until they get theirs together.
5. You still need to set healthy boundaries.
Whether your relationship is six months or six years old, you need to set healthy boundaries with your soulmate. Vega explains, “Women make it so easy on men. They get stuck in the trap of ‘he is my soulmate, so I am going to let him do what he wants.’ If you set boundaries, you help the other person grow. You are setting expectations for the other person to meet. You have to say that you are not okay with something. Don’t make it too comfortable.” Even if you’re with a great person, setting boundaries is a way to show you respect yourself. If your partner respects your boundaries, then they respect you too.
6. They (or you) might not stick around.
Soulmate relationships aren’t always meant to last forever, especially if you’re willing to overlook a lot of the things your partner does that hurt you. You may overlook these things, but the hurt is still there, and that’s going to fester for only so long before you explode. The same thing could happen if your partner overlooks a lot of the things you do. You could begin to resent each other and “You may need to go away for a while. The connection may still be there, but you need a timeout,” says Vega. The timeout could be temporary or permanent. A soulmate relationship could be a toxic relationship. Not sure if your romance is toxic? Vega knows what to look for.
Even the best relationships aren’t supposed to be perfect, but this article isn’t meant to depress you. It’s meant to be a strong dose of reality that we all need from time to time. You can have the greatest love of your life and still struggle. You won’t be happy all the time, but that’s okay. And you have to remember to protect yourself, your needs and your independence. If you need another dose of straightforward reality, give Vega a call. She’s got something you need to hear.