You have a few dates, or maybe, just a few conversations with someone. There is an eerie feeling to the encounter, like something important is about to happen. Sooner or later, the thought floats through your mind as you click on the message they send, or just pass them in the hallway at your job. Are they the one?
Does a “one and only” actually exist for anyone? Many factors go into answering this question. Such as: Are they available, you know… really available, for a relationship? Would they be open to a commitment with the right person? Are they in a viable physical, mental, or spiritual condition to maintain “a life?” Are they really capable of love? Are we?
Souls reincarnate with different spiritual agendas. For some, relationships are a key component necessary for the wisdom leading to spiritual evolution. For others, it might be that their career or vocation in life is much more centrally important. Others seem to be marvelous peregrine wanderers, always seeking the next horizon and taking perpetual inner and outer journeys. These differences make up human diversity and each life path is perfect for the soul who has chosen it. So, no, probably not everyone means or needs to have “the one” as a lifetime companion.
How Can You Know?
How can you know if this is the one for you? You’ve met someone, and you’re wondering. Something about them seems different and special. You’ve gone down this road before and you are tired of wasting time, energy, and love on someone who turns out to be another disappointment. So, for you who simply want to love and be loved in a real and lasting way, here is a tool to employ. It will help you recognize and bond with that person who destiny has set aside just for you!
The “Are they the One?” Tarot Spread
This is a seven-card spread to answer this burning question for you. It will help to lead you through this selection process to total and lasting happiness in love. Watch the video below, then read on for more details.
Shuffle as usual, and concentrate on your question. When you are ready, select seven cards from the deck:
Card One – Is this person potentially “The One”?
If not, why spend precious time with them? It’s true that “a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.” But, not if “the one” is perched within sight a short reach away.
Card Two- Are they open to commitment with the right person?
Many wonderful souls don’t really want or need a committed relationship like marriage, so if you do, and they don’t, don’t set yourself up for heartbreak. They are probably not your “one.”
Card Three- Conflicting Influences
What stands in the way of your happiness with this person? Do they have an overbearing, meddling family or group of friends? Are there past relationships that intrude into their time in a way that prevents new ones from developing? Everyone has things they need to tie up and manage, of course, because we all have some kind of past. But is their past something that they can, in fact, manage enough to be freely in love with you?
Card Four- Favorable Influences
What does this person have going for them? Sense of humor? Brains? Energy? A work ethic? A kind heart? You know, things that would make them a good long-term partner.
Card Five- How can I help this relationship develop?
This is where knowing the moon sign of your lover is crucial. The moon represents the number one need in the natal horoscope, what we need most in life to feel fulfilled. When it’s possible, get the birth location, date, and time of birth of your person of interest. A competent Astrology Psychic can identify their moon placement and interpret it for you in a flash. It is the key to knowing how to make and keep them happy.
The astrological moon sign seems to be more important to relationship happiness, than even the sun, Venus, or ascendant. For example, your lover with the nurturing, cozy Cancer Moon is not going to be thrilled with the all-night eclectic and bizarre acquaintances dropping in at will, in the same way you are, if your moon is in Aquarius or Gemini!
Card Six- What must they do to win you?
Now let’s look at your needs. What is non-negotiable to you? What must you have and keep in your life to stay happy? Your kids? Other family members? Your friends? Your career? Your hobbies? Can this person make space for, and help you celebrate those things?
Card Seven- Will you be happy with them?
That means not just for today, but years in the future. Could you see yourself in ten years or more with this person? Do they have the same basic values and goals as you do? Can they encompass your non-negotiables?
Ask an Expert
Uncertainty in love can be hard on the heart, so if you have lingering questions and doubts, call upon an expert for advice. A call or a chat with a Love Psychic about whether or not this new person is “The One” could do wonders for your peace of mind. They may even do this particular spread with you and help you interpret the cards. However, whether you call upon your angels and guides for help, talk to a psychic, or just stick with your gut, as long as you don’t leave your heart to suffer suspense, all will be well in the end.
Being in love is a life experience that everyone deserves. Whether you’re looking for your soulmate or wondering how to keep the romantic fires burning in your relationship, a love psychic can help. They want to see you happy and a psychic love reading is all you need to find or keep the love that is meant for you.
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