What to Know When You’ve Met Mr./Ms. Right Now
One-night stands can be a lot of fun for people not looking for a relationship or for those between relationships. It’s casual (hopefully safe) sex that makes you feel good without the drama that can come with being part of a couple. But navigating one-night stands is tricky, especially the morning after when emotions can get involved. If you’ve decided to take the plunge into a sultry, spontaneous sexual experience, there are a few things you need to know first. Here’s how to have fun, no-strings-attached casual sexual.
Get On the Same Page
The most important thing is to make sure the two of you are going into this escapade with the same expectations. If one person is looking for something deeper than a fun romp, then the one-night-stand scenario is not a good idea. You need to have that conversation and hopefully you are both being honest with each other. Be clear that all you are looking for is one amazing night with him. If he wants the same, you’re good to go. If he doesn’t, find fun elsewhere.
Check Your Emotions
Be on the lookout for any emotional development before you go home with him! Whether you are bringing previous feelings to the sexual table or think you may inadvertently be developing some feelings for him, recalibrate your thinking! If you can’t, you are going to wake up with emotional attachments. That defeats the purpose of the one-night stand.
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No Special Connections
If after meeting and speaking with him you feel that there is a connection more special than a random first-time meeting, you probably don’t want to jump into sleepover mode. Not only will you have a hard time not feeling something for him, but you could also end up feeling like the moment is more meaningful than it actually is. Don’t try to turn a one-night stand into a real relationship.
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Don’t Use Them to Replace Your Ex
Hooking up with someone for the sole purpose of trying to shake an ex will probably blow up in your face and you’ll likely transfer your feelings onto your hookup at some point. You can’t recreate the intimacy you had with an ex in one night with a random sex partner. If you try to, you’ll end up feeling more lonely than you did before your hooked up. Do yourself a favor and leave the past at home. If you can’t, save your one-night-stand adventure for another, less complicated night!
“Always remember love is an emotion and sex is a physical act. Yes, you can have sex with or without love, and yes, you can have love with or without sex. For some, this concept is hard to embrace and the lines can become blurred.” – Psychic Deejay ext. 5435