Are They Your True Soulmate?
You love them, but are they your true soulmate? Many people tell stories about how they met their perfect match. They go into detail about what it felt like to connect with them and they talk about how compatible they and their mate are. But what are the signs that someone is the right soulmate for you?
We often define “soulmate” as the companion and lover who helps someone realize their karmic agreements. They’re the person you’re destined to be with, because your connection was determined before birth. A soulmate is also someone who is symbiotically programmed to help you become the best version of yourself. True love is an expression of the other person honoring your for who you truly are. Where harmony exists, there is the intention to work together and support each other.
That really strong feelings of having met someone before is a past life memory. This memory affirms a soulmate connection. Past life memories are feelings that cannot be explained logically. Someone who constantly thinks about you, is aligned to your needs and satisfies your desires are all good signs that they are your soulmate.
Someone who is persistently concerned about your feelings is someone who respects your needs. A soulmate also makes you feel secure. If you partner is sincere in their feelings, they are your soulmate. If they are inconsistent, then there are other forces at work.
The desire to change perceptions and grow as a person is another healthy sign that all is well in your partnership. Do they spend a lot of time learning about you and your interests?
It’s also important for soulmates to spend time apart, pursuing their hobbies and interests, as well as spending time with friends. Soulmates need to foster their individuality! And when the come back together, they have things to talk about. Each individual experience further enriches their shared life experience.
Your soulmate will make thoughtful gestures. They’ll send cards and flowers. They’ll remember birthdays and anniversaries. That’s their way of letting you know you can trust them. Trust means different things to different people. Some are happy with a text a day, just to check in. Others require a call or even several. If your partner takes the time to know what makes you comfortable, then then are investing in your relationship and showing you that they are committed to you for the long-term.
Soulmate relationships are all about reciprocity, so if you are getting back all that you are putting in, that’s a very good sign. When a partner is sensitive to your needs and goes out of their way to consistently meet them, you know you’re with your soulmate. Good communication, consistent attention and devotion in practice are the best signs that the one you love is your soulmate.