Hey! This Isn’t My Underwear
Infidelity can be a relationship killer – but it doesn’t have to be. There are three important questions you need to ask to find out if recovery from an affair is possible. Every situation is different, and it’s up to the two people involved to determine the fate of their pairing. If you’ve recently discovered your special someone sneaking out on the side, here are three things to consider before determining the fate of your relationship. Not sure what steps to take next? Talk to Psychic Krishni ext. 5478 to see where things are headed.
Is the Affair Over?
Whether the infidelity came in the form of a one night stand or an ongoing relationship, before you can even consider undoing the damage that’s been done, you need to know for certain that the affair is over – and that your partner is committed to being faithful from here on in. While the trust has clearly been broken, there is no way it can be repaired if the cheating is not definitely done.
What Were the Causes?
You’ve heard the laws of physics. You know – for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Well, even if your lover’s infidelity doesn’t feel very equal to you at the moment, odds are you participated in a dynamic that fostered their desire to look elsewhere. Was the cheating your fault? Of course not. Your partner was the one who decided to step over the line and begin a relationship with someone else without ending yours. However, if you ask yourself honestly, you’ll probably find you were drifting apart or somehow unavailable. Perhaps your partner needed more than you were willing or able to give. Maybe your attention was elsewhere. Whatever the underlying issues that led to infidelity, you need to address them honestly before you can begin to repair the relationship – and both of you need to take responsibility for your role in it.
What Do You Want?
Change is hard. At the moment, you’re understandably hurt. But it’s possible that your partner did you a favor. If your relationship wasn’t working, don’t assume you want it to just because it’s the status quo. Sometimes things happen to shake up our lives and help us move in a different direction. Translation? Your partner’s infidelity can have one of two effects: it can kill your relationship or it can strengthen your bond (after you’ve done a lot of work and honest soul-searching together). Before you decide which path to take, ask yourself what you really want your life to look like and if you think that is possible to achieve with this person. If not, be grateful you were given this out rather than clinging on to something you don’t really want in the first place. If so, prepare for a long, but potentially rewarding road. Confused if you want to continue the relationship? Talk with Psychic Quinn ext. 5484 to see the big picture.
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