What Aren’t They Telling You
Guys are known to hide important details about their life, keeping secrets from you in the relationship. Men’s secrets range from their health to their relationship status. Today, we are going to spill the beans on six of his dirtiest secrets and how worried you should be about them.
1. He Has Flirted With at Least One Woman on the Job
Office romance has become a common occurrence. This isn’t surprising when you consider many men spend more time with their coworkers during the week then their own family. However, flirting is not a crime in itself. Men do it to remind themselves that they are attractive, sexual beings. In fact, research shows that 91 percent of flirting never leads to anything more than a slightly inflated ego (or deflated one, depending on its reciprocation). It is when playful flirting becomes overt sexual advances that it is detrimental to your relationship. The common red flags of a cheating husband include secrecy (password changes, disappearing bills, muted cell phone), lack of intimacy, and repeated late nights at the office. Has their flirting gotten out of hand? Talk to Psychic Alison ext. 9885 to learn what’s going on in their mind.
2. He’s Been in Contact With an Ex Since You’ve Been Dating
Women feel betrayed when they discover an e-mail or Facebook message from a ghost of their guy’s past. However, most guys keep in touch with an ex while dating exclusively. The only difference is that not all of them get caught. Is this a sign that your guy is not happy in your relationship? Not necessarily. Men doubt their ability to choose the right woman and feel more comfortable when they have an S.O.S. tug boat offshore just in case things don’t work out. You shouldn’t worry too much about this casual connection, so long as he doesn’t become increasingly secretive and distant.
3. He Needs Clean Underwear
This is one of man’s most literal “dirty” secrets. Your man’s mom and ex-girlfriends/wives have spoiled him. Research suggests that men purchase their own underwear over a seventeen-year period, beginning at the age 19 and ending somewhere around 36. This means that if you are dating a divorcee (age 35 or over), he may have had the same tighty-whities since President Bush was in office. Give a guy a break when it comes to his undergarment fashion statement. Men rarely throw underwear away; they lose them, such as when a pair sticks to the bottom of the hamper and becomes a permanent addition to it.
4. Men Thwart Their Own Sexual Experience
Men can have sexual difficulties, leaving women to wonder what they can do to make him work better. The truth is, men can be the cause of their own dysfunction. This is not always the case, as certain physiological problems do happen. However, more often than not, sexual dysfunction is caused by his own hand, quite literally. When men masturbate, a hard stroke can promote a quick orgasm, which can lead to premature ejaculation. Frequent sexual experiences with hardcore porn (or in unnatural positions), can numb a man to the act of sex, making it difficult for him to orgasm. These moments should never make you feel like any less of a woman.
5. He Thinks Marriage is a Bomb Aimed at His Libido, and It’s Up to You to Stifle Its Ignition
It is common thinking for men to assume marriage as a sex breaker. They get this idea from the barrage of information cast across television, film, and social media. Sex does seem to diminish over the course of the marriage. However, the fact that men assume this, promotes the tendency to place the majority of fault on his partner’s waning interest. Sex is more than just a warm fuzzy around his “Johnson.” Most men consider cheating as a means to feel desired and needed. The best way to prove this stereotype wrong is to work to keep your sex exciting.
6. How Ever Much Sex You Think is Enough, He Wants Twice As Much!
Studies suggest men are rarely satisfied with the amount of sex they are getting from their partner. Should you be concerned? Partners with libidos that are off kilter are quite common. However, how you deal with these differences will shape the definition of future intimacy in your relationship. Sexual compromise means that you make yourself available more, while he has to learn to deal with those occasions when you aren’t in the mood. By maintaining compatibility, you will minimize the chance of sex ever becoming a statement of rejection.
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