Fool! He Wants You!
Is it possible for men and women to be friends without any sexual tension? Or does one party or another have a hidden agenda? Researchers went in search of the answer.
A few weeks ago, a girlfriend told me about this awkward situation. Her boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend was back in the picture after a year apart. The boyfriend and the ex worked at the same place, and suddenly she started offering to pick him up for work. Then she started bringing him breakfast, hanging out after her shift and asking to get together outside of work. To my friend, it sounded like the ex wanted more than just friendship. Is she right?
Until I read recent research and checked out a few informal polls, I would have believed the more often than not, women were the ones to think friendship with a man would blossom into a relationship. Call me cynical or check out my pathetic, desperate dating history.
However, the studies have shown that most women believe they can just be friends with men. Surprisingly (perhaps only to me), men think the opposite is true. The studies showed that men thought their lady friends were attracted to them, while women stated they were just friends and were not romantically attracted to the man. Do you want to be more than friends, but not sure if they feel the same way? Talk with love adviser Psychic Zelda ext. 5090 to find out.
Are We Blind?
Are we missing all the signs that we are putting out there? I did my own informal poll and asked women this question, “Can men and women just be friends?” Emphatically, they answered, “Yes!” I followed up with asking, “Has any male friend confessed their feelings to you?” It was great to watch their expressions change because each one said that at least one male friend had confessed their romantic feelings to them.
I asked these same questions to men, and they told me that not only could they not be friends but they were more likely to seek out friendship with a woman if she was good looking. And my faith in men died a bit more today.
Is Friendship Steps to Get Sex?
The studies showed that men have more sexual interest in the opposite sex while women seem to be more of a nurturing nature. What does that mean to you and me?
What if there’s that strong pull to your friend? Could it mean that you’re fated to be more than friends? It’s quite possible that you were somehow connected to them in a past life. The reason you’re feeling the connection is from the energy you shared in a previous life together perhaps as friends, lovers or family members. Many of our psychics, like Psychic Amelia ext. 9772 can help you explore this strong connection to see if it’s true and what was your relationship. Find out more with a past life reading.