Gerrie from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada writes:
I had a very real dream last night about a lover who broke things off between us and wouldn’t tell me why. I was very devastated for the entire summer. Now I feel like I’m over him, but last night I dreamed we were hugging and kissing again, just like the breakup never happened. I felt his muscles and strong arms around me. I could even smell his hair!
I could fall back into the relationship with him very easily, but I know he’s not the one for me. We were close (as friends/lovers) and had fun, but that was all. Neither of us wanted to get serious, but I miss what we had. Is that what this dream was all about? Getting back together with him?
Judging from the vivid sensuality, the dream may be warning you about something you already know: that it would be easy to reconnect with your guy, even though he isn’t good for you in the long run. The dream may also be a reality check about casual relationships. They can be addictive, which makes it hard to move on to someone new when the relationship ends. The big question is, are you ready for something deeper? Is just having a good time enough for you anymore?
You indicated you’re a Cancer, a sign that usually craves a strong emotional connection with a lover, whether it’s a committed relationship or a casual one. What’s more, I’ve never known a Cancer who had an easy time letting go of someone once their emotions were engaged. As such, you might want to rethink getting involved with someone who doesn’t want to explore the depth and breadth of love. Perhaps it’s time to find your true love and not settle for anything less!
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