Knowing When the Relationship Is Over and Acting On It
Sometimes you know in your heart and mind that the relationship is over, but you hesitate on making the decision to leave. Learn how to get past that!
Know When It’s Time to Move On
There are some lovers that you just can’t let go. Every time you leave, there’s something pulling you back to them. It’s as if your mind and body are no longer your own, and you constantly go back to the person knowing it’s not good for you. So either you’re insane, a glutton for punishment or you stopped listening to your guides (or perhaps all three!). It’s time to step outside of our relationship and take a look at it—like you’re seeing it for the first time.
Listen to Your Guides
Psychic Tatiana ext. 5189 says it so clearly in her video. Her comment caught me: “When you’re not ready to admit the relationship is over, I think that your guides tell you. But you tend to not listen to them so much, because you want to hold on to the relationship.” Tatiana couldn’t be more right! I can think back to my previous relationships and remember when my body, heart and mind all screamed the relationship is over, but I didn’t listen. My guides flashed memories of when things were awful. They showed me when his actions were inconsistent with creating a loving relationship. The longer I didn’t listen, the more I physically and mentally suffered. But when it ended… I felt released. It was like I stepped out of a cage and found a new freedom. I didn’t hate or despise my ex-lover, but the relationship was dead and I mourned that loss.
Your Own Free Will
A friend of mine once told me that she had problems following her guides. She said that when she didn’t follow them, she made bad choices and things went badly. When she followed their guidance, she made good choices and things went well. She was afraid that she was losing her free will if she listened to her guides. My response: Think of guides like your own personal friends who are with you every moment of every day. They are there to give you advice, guidance and insight. It is up to you to follow their advice or not. When it comes to a dying relationship, your guides can be a great insight. They have been with you and your partner every step of the journey and know you better than anyone else.
Nothing Lasts Forever
Especially in marriages! There is this bond—legal, magical or otherwise—that folks think can’t or shouldn’t be broken. It’s like you’ve contracted out your soul and you no longer have power or free will over it. As much as losing someone or a relationship would hurt, it hurts more to stay in something that no long serves you.
It’s like Tatiana said in the video: When you force a broken relationship along, you end up becoming someone different—someone you don’t recognize. When this has happened to me, I feel oppressed, like someone is standing on my chest. I’m angry all the time. I’m irritable. I snap. I’m not me. I lost myself in trying to save something that is dead. And then the good old doctor’s voice from Star Trek rings in my ears as I stand over my dead relationship, “It’s dead, Jim.”
Mourn the relationship, break the contract (rip it up if you have to!) and let it go. Talk to a psychic, like Tatiana, to find the new things that await you when do you let this go. Because, believe me, nothing else is going to move your life along until you let the relationship go. You’ll keep repeating the same pattern over and over again, expecting different results (and we both know that’s the definition of insanity).