The Benefits and Challenges
Have you fallen for someone who shares your sun sign? You have a heart-pounding, mind-blowing, earth-shattering love connection and it’s not surprising. That’s because you have a similar destiny that’s determined by your shared sun sign and that fact makes your relationship perfect, right? Yes and no.
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While there are many benefits to a same-sign love connection, there are also many challenges. Your partner is your mirror—for better or for worse. That means you can see yourself in their likes and dislikes, strengths and weaknesses, talents and foibles. Of course, seeing your good side shining through the other person is the ultimate validation. And it can inspire you to use your strengths. However, it’s also an ego rush, and being with someone because it strokes your ego doesn’t always indicate true love. Having said that, the feeling of being understood and sharing important things in common may overcome the negative.
Now let’s take a look a closer look at the benefits and challenges of your same sign love connection:
The Aries Love Connection
You’re hot together! As a Mars-ruled couple, you have plenty of energy for the boudoir. Quickies may be a problem, however, so you both need to slow down to thoroughly enjoy the nuances of your sexual connection. This passion spills over into everything you do together too, which is exciting but could cause burnout. Another challenge you face is that you two get bored easily, and have trouble relaxing together. And if boredom sets in, you’ll end the relationship (perhaps prematurely). Because Mars rules anger, you can instantly irritate each other over the smallest things. Your arguments can be heard around the corner and up the block! Have patience. Staying power will be in short supply unless you strive for a deeper, steadier emotional connection.
The Taurus Love Connection
Eating, drinking, and merriment make you the ultimate sensual couple. Subtle touching throughout the day, combined with simmering eye contact, will lead to the bedroom (where you may stay for days at a time). Routine, however, can be your downfall. Too much of it will lead to relationship stagnation. You’re both very loving, loyal, and extremely stubborn, which can bind you together for a long time. Unfortunately, being adaptable isn’t your forte. You’ll need to change up your relationship periodically so you continue to grow as a couple. And when it comes to money, you each need to be in charge of different areas of your finances, or you’ll wind up with some major control issues. You have control issues, anyway, but money is your Achilles heel. So strive to keep things fresh, compromise over how you handle money—and try to get out of the bedroom once in a while.
The Gemini Love Connection
As a couple of twins, there are four people in your relationship, which can make for a scattering of energies unless you learn to slow down and focus. It’s never a dull moment with so many activities to plan, people to see, and ideas to explore. You never lack for mental excitement, and communicating with each other is your strength. Flirting and talking dirty can intensify your passion too. The mental connection is definitely there, but what may be lacking is a deep emotional bond. You may not be able to get out of your heads long enough to feel the love. Therefore, be silent sometimes, so you can listen to your heart. And stop trying to fill every waking moment with stuff to do. If you can establish a heart-to-heart connection, your relationship will be forever interesting as you grow old together.
The Cancer Love Connection
Oh, the emoting! You’re the most sentimental of same-sign couples—always strumming the heartstrings. Profoundly sensitive and intuitive, you usually know what the other is feeling. That goes for your bedroom romps too. Your cozy, heartfelt passion makes you feel safe enough to open up sexually and of course, safety is important to any Cancer. A depth of feeling is your strength, but talking about your feelings is the challenge. Your partner won’t always know what you’re going through—you have to speak up. If you don’t, you’ll let the negativity fester, and no one holds onto negativity like a Cancer. Let it go, for heaven’s sake! And don’t cling to each other as if you were the last couple on Earth. Getting out into the world and letting new acquaintances join your close circle of family and friends will help you grow as a couple and keep your bond fresh.
The Leo Love Connection
The drama of it all! Passion isn’t a problem for you—your sex life has plenty of fire. You’re a creative couple, too, so keeping things fresh isn’t a problem, either. What is a problem is blowing things out of proportion (drama, again) and deciding who gets to be on top, so to speak. You both like to lead, and you both crave attention. So who gets to be pampered first? You’ll need to learn to compromise and take turns being the adored Queen or King who gets all the love and attention. And don’t fight over the bathroom mirror. It’s unbecoming to a regal lion. Also, keep an eye on that craving for luxury, which can wreak havoc on your finances. On the positive side, you’re both supremely loyal, so if you don’t let willfulness derail your relationship, you’ll have a lively and long-lived bond.
The Virgo Love Connection
Being a sensual Earth sign, you can have a deeply satisfying sex life if you don’t over-analyze it to death. Like Gemini, Mercury is your ruler, which makes communication easier but can also cut off your instincts. And listen up: Nothing is perfect. But try telling that to a pair of perfectionists! Your main challenge as a couple is accepting imperfections. Not only are you hard on yourselves, but that negative mirror can make you hard on your partner as well if your expectations aren’t met. Criticism can crush your relationship, Virgos! What you do have is sensitivity to each other’s needs, and the willingness to support each other’s dreams and goals. Being helpful to each other and accepting each other’s strengths and weaknesses can create a loving bond that lasts forever.
The Libra Love Connection
As a Venus-ruled couple, you’re over-the-top when it comes to romance. Nothing is too lovey-dovey for you—candlelight, wine, music, flowers in abundance—create an environment that suits your ultra-romantic, artsy lifestyle. In bed, your ultimate goal is to please your partner, and who wouldn’t appreciate that? As an Air sign, however, your brain can get in the way of pleasure, so don’t overthink your bedroom romps. Let your instincts take over and enjoy! Your main challenge lies in taking care of the practical things that make a relationship work on a day-to-day basis. Being grounded isn’t your strength. Indecisiveness is also an issue and can make commitment difficult. Still, if you’re committed, your love and sense of fairness can create a harmonious and long-lasting bond.
The Scorpio Love Connection
One word for you—intense! Your passion could light up an entire city. No doubt your attraction to each other feels fated, almost as if you had no choice in the matter. After all, Scorpios never do anything halfway. Those smoldering glances broadcast sex, and your powerful emotional nature won’t settle for less than complete possession of your partner’s body, mind, and soul. This can make for some monumental control issues. Yes, the urge to control each other is your biggest challenge. Inwardly, you fear abandonment, and this can make you cling too tightly to each other, which in turn leads to jealousy, secretiveness, and the doom of love. But if you can be vulnerable with each other and keep the control demons at bay, the depth of your connection can fuel a forever love.
The Sagittarius Love Connection
You’re the globetrotting couple that never sits still—adventure is in your blood! Trailblazing across uncharted territories (or even trying out new restaurants) means your relationship will never get stale. You’re both free spirits! But when it comes to commitment, there might not be one—ever. Settling down (oh, that ugly word!) is your biggest challenge. You’ll always have fun together, and you’ll always make each other laugh, but being practical isn’t your strong suit. Who’s going to balance the checkbook and clean up after the dog? Not you! Well, unless you have some Earth in your chart, which would make you more “grounded” (another dirty word!). The Sag’s strength is the ability to envision the future and manifest dreams, so if your relationship is part of your dream, you may just stay together for the rest of your lives.
The Capricorn Love Connection
You’re an ambitious pair. Your strength is in supporting each other’s goals, moving together to the top of the heap. Security and commitment are important to you, so being together over the long haul is a real possibility. Sexually, your earthy, patient nature tends to prefer a leisurely roll in the hay. But wow, you can bore each other after a while. As with all Earth signs, your downfall is stagnation, so keeping things fresh is important to your growth as a couple. Another challenge is the control issue. Being ruled by stoic Saturn, you may find it difficult to cut loose and have fun with each other. Life isn’t just about getting somewhere; simply being in each other’s company, without trying to accomplish something, can be just as fulfilling. So if you’re committed to each other, and take some time to play, longevity may be on your side.
The Aquarius Love Connection
You’re the “out there” couple. With Uranus as your ruler, you’re up for just about anything, as long as it isn’t boring. Experimenting with new activities, positions, toys, etc., can make for some intriguing—maybe even weird—fireworks in the bedroom. You’re super-social, and friends are important to you. You’ll undoubtedly attract a diverse and interesting social circle, which is one of the best things about your relationship. However, objectivity—to the point of detachment—can be your downfall. Unless there’s a strong Water element in your charts, you may have difficulty staying connected emotionally. But while you’re together, you’ll inspire each other’s social and intellectual growth—possibly for a long, long, time.
The Pisces Love Connection
Ah, you dreamers. With Neptune as your ruler, sweet romance casts a blissful aura over your relationship. Love is the nectar of life for you. And heightening your bliss is the spiritual bond you have together. You’re sensitive—to the point of being near-psychic—to each other’s needs, which fuels the gentle but deep passion between you. You’re willing to be whatever the other wants you to be, which is both enchanting (especially in the bedroom, where fantasy rules) and dangerous. Holding on to your individuality is the challenge because Pisces is notoriously bad at establishing boundaries. Your other challenge is staying grounded enough to take care of business. So if your relationship is meant to work, and it can, you’ll need to ensure that it doesn’t overpower who you both are, or get in the way of what you need to do.
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