What scares you the most? What is your worst nightmare, the one that brings shivers to your soul? In a year when vampire tales are popular as bedtime stories and late night couch-potato television fare, is there anything left unexplored to frighten us this Halloween Week? The answer, hands down, our psychic team tells us, is to be alone!
The majority of callers report that their darkest hours are spent obsessing--losing sleep over, and worrying themselves sick about the idea of--spending their life without a partner, says Sula ext. 5197.
Chel ext. 5153 reports that many people squeamishly hang on to their unhappy, unkind, or even abusive relationships rather than face what they assume will be the even more horrifying existence of living alone--possibly, they fear, forever.
Vhee ext. 5109 explains that "this fear of loneliness, the assumption that you can't be happy without a partner, worries people more than any other issue in life!"
Is life really all that dangerous without a partner? It feels like it might be, our psychics tell us. Callers would much rather hang on to a love that's full of anguish and discomfort versus letting go of someone they don't truly love--or who doesn't really love them.
Along with that terror of loneliness there is an underlying panic, sometimes, a feeling that the caller might have missed something… their soulmate, or some great opportunity for love, adds Verronique ext. 5199. "They worry that their timing is off--did they miss their chance to find their perfect match? People ask that question, hating themselves for possibly having missed a fork in the road, or for getting lost or stuck, and not realizing what they might have failed to notice until it was too late--particularly when it comes to finding love, or a life partner. I tell them that the answer to that questions is always 'no.' They might have missed a boat, but there's always another boat... another opportunity, another soulmate."
People with this intense fear of being alone often turn their angst around when they realize that the monstrous feeling of insecurity they are living with lies within them. "A psychic can pinpoint the problem, and help them move away from fear, into a place where it is replaced by possibilities. The importance of readings in these situations is that they are empowering," suggests Sahara ext. 5210.
"We are so much more in the driver's seat than we realize," Verronique reveals. "Ask your psychic to help you strategize about how to best live your life without that fear.'"
When clients are afraid that they will never find a mate, Barbie ext. 9295 helps them to overcome their terrifying feelings by reading to see who might be coming into their lives. "Then I help them find ways to make it happen. It's easier to let go--or to make space for someone by setting aside fear--when you have a sense of what's to come."
"If you think you can't be alone, explore in your next reading the worst thing that can happen if you do end up alone. After all, there is great value in aloneness at various times in our lives. We can dedicate ourselves to activities that we have put off or put aside, or we can spend time looking inward, getting healthy, exercising--and helping others. In this sense, loneliness can be a form of self-centered behavior," Marceea ext. 9118 suggests.
"I had a caller who was so desperate not to be alone that he would always wait anxiously for his wayward wife to come back again--even though he felt tortured by her presence. He feared being alone.. with his wife and without her. Eventually, I explained that if he had the courage to let go, and really close the door on this relationship completely, there was a wonderful, warm, loving woman looking for a grounded, devoted man like him," Chel ext. 5153 relates. "Knowing this, he faced his fears and finally refused to take his wife back again. He was alone for some time, but he was alone with the hope that he would someday find this woman. And he did."
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