What can I do to attract my soulmate? When it comes to finding or attracting your one true love - that person you'll want to spend the rest of your life with - also known as your soulmate - our psychics are of two minds. Some say there are things you can do to help them move into your life quicker and easier, while others believe that the universe has more control of the timing than you may choose to believe.
In either case, they have lots of insights on what to do in the meantime, whether you're living each day and enjoying each moment as a happy person engineering your life solo, or actively using the power of attraction to search for the "one." And when your soulmate is heading your way, our psychics can see the indications in your reading, and sometimes clients say they too pick up intuitively on signs that they're on the way.
If you're not one to wait for the universe to take its sweet time, then it's important to know what kind of person you are in order to find your best strategy for finding a soulmate, tells Tammy ext. 9380. "If you are inclined to pursue, then get active, get out there and make sure you are in all kinds of places that speak to your heart. If you attract people to you, visualize them and listen for inner guidance."
Be open to dreams and signs and the universe will guide you to your soulmate, Meryl ext. 9376 believes, as does psychic Becky ext. 9605, who at age 34 recently met her soulmate online. "Use your intuition when meeting people. Don't assume that everyone is your potential soulmate. Never force or be forced to connect with someone. When the universe brings this person to you, you will both feel it without a doubt. I've had soulful connections before, I've been proposed to… but I've never felt butterflies in my feet. What a feeling!"
Our psychics, who believe in being proactive in seeking out a soulmate, suggest creating a love list - a wish list of characteristics, wants and inner needs you'd like to attract. Write it in the present tense and then release it to the universe. "When you wake up in the morning, grab your list and say out loud, 'Today as I go about my day I am open to meet the perfect person for me with the following qualities… " suggests Fox ext. 9453. Then read your list. When you finish, affirm, 'I am open to meet this person and have them love me as much as I love them,' Do it every day for at least one lunar cycle, or 28 days."
Mara ext. 9886 recommends utilizing candles to help attract what we want. A rainbow colored candle signifies all facets of a relationship. Or, burn a pink and a red one for passion and sexual energy, but make sure to burn them together. Place your affirmations under the candle. Place images, the soulmate, relationship or marriage card from the Angel Oracle Decks nearby, to further describe exactly what you are looking for. Use whatever resonates with you. There are no real rules, this is merely a ritual of intention, the psychic describes.
From the intuitive point of view that there is nothing we can do to make the other person come to us in a flash, our psychics consensus is to just stop looking - desperation tends to send soulmates running. "Stay out of the universe's way. When we try to orchestrate things ourselves, we often end up delaying the process or settling for second best," states another psychic. Instead, she suggests putting ourselves "in the meantime." It's a place of self-improvement, finding one's niche and becoming the person that the universe wants us to be. "Through cultivation of our spirit-filled path and the ability to be complete and happy, we draw our soulmate to us.
Jonathan ext. 9601 agrees, "If you cannot find happiness and contentment within yourself, there is nothing that can bring it to you. Your soulmate will not be drawn to you unless (and until!) you are content with yourself. Content souls meant to be together will find each other."
When a soul is ready to find a mate, and the universal timing is imminent, psychics have various ways of reading the meeting. "I can see a pink light around the caller and the person they are meant to be with. I can also sense a giving, loving feeling emanating from the other person. It's a definite draw, like two magnets," describes Ariel ext. 9775 .
One of my favorite readings is a "soulmate sighting" says Tammy. "Working with the caller's name and general location I look around them Clairvoyantly and see who shows up!"
Whether you meet your soulmate after intentionally working to attract them, or bump into them right outside your front door… the relationship only begins there. All relationships require work, even when they're made up of two like souls who love and respect each other.
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