Human beings have been concocting ways to woo our lovers since the dawn of time. In many thousands of years since, one would hope we'd have come a long way from dragging our mates by the hair across the cave for some sexy time. However, the unfortunate truth is that many of us haven't advanced all that much in this arena.
Sure, the hair pulling may have given way to a tap on the shoulder before bedtime, a nervous offer or an awkward kiss that leads to even more awkward sex, but the fact remains that many otherwise modern people struggle in the seduction department. And the problem isn't necessarily that we don't know what to do - it can also be that we're just too shy to actually do it!
Whatever your current sexual experience is, if you're looking to perfect the dark side of seduction - and drive your lover wild with desire, have we got good news for you! It doesn't take much to take it up a notch in the bedroom (or down as it were!). A hotter sex life begins with going beyond flowers and candy to explore (ah-hum) in the dark.
And don't worry - exactly how dark you're willing to go is up to you!
Shhhh...
If you're particularly shy, the whole idea of sharing a secret may sound daunting. But don't worry, you don't have to dress up in latex, role-play dominatrix and tie your lover to your bed to reveal one (though if you're feeling game, go for it!)… Exploring the dark side of seduction begins with delving deeper into your desires and then sharing them with your mate. So, to open the door to something steamier, start off by sharing a sexy secret… something you've thought about, fantasized about or might even like to try in the bedroom. You may find they'll respond in kind, and at the very least, you'll set their mind reeling all day. Plus, delving deeper, darker and yes, dirtier is practically guaranteed to bring you closer, which is exactly what great sex is supposed to do, right?
Play set designer
Atmosphere is everything. And while you may not want to paint your bedroom "bordello red" just yet, a few well-placed items can do wonders for both of your imaginations - and libidos. So, whether it's new bedding, soft lighting, a trail of rose petals leading to the bed or a riding crop placed prominently on their pillow doesn't matter. Determine what message you want to convey, and dress your set accordingly (read: bedroom, dining room, backyard, closet or wherever you intend to play the seducer). Seduction is all about theater, after all, and it's time for you to become the director of your own play!
Send a message
Lastly, if you want to make your lover think of you all day in the best possible way - leading to a saucier experience when next you two meet - consider sending a message of the suggestive sort. The power of surprise can never be understated in this arena and when your text, email or a hidden, handwritten note hits their proverbial inbox, the shockwaves will be lasting. Just how naughty you get is up to you. For beginners, a little compliment can soft sell the sexy suggestion. If you're feeling bold and adventurous, however, direct orders may be the best way to go.
With these three simple suggestions, we hope you will enjoy exploring you and your lover's dark side - no matter where it takes you.
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