Why can't I just be happy? It's one of the most challenging questions that we can ask ourselves in life, because the quality of our existence depends on it. Our psychics believe that the pursuit of happiness is not an impossible dream no matter how miserable you may feel at the moment. The key to happiness, California Psychics say, is knowing exactly where to look for it.
Okay, so you may have heard it before, but our psychics say believe it: Happiness comes from within. "If you are constantly chasing external happiness, from another person, a new car, job, house, a baby… you will never find it," says Medium and Astrologer Rainbow ext. 9544. "It comes from a place deep in our hearts. When we realize that we can choose to be happy no matter what, then happiness can grow. But of course, if it were that easy we'd all be happy."
What makes finding happiness difficult is that there isn't a concrete definition of exactly what happiness is. It can be something different for everyone on the planet. "It's an indefinable experience we all crave," describes Clairvoyant and Tarot reader Meryl Ext. 9376. "When we do find our personal source of happiness, a sense of psychic balance comes with it. We love ourselves and feel an inner peace. We are resilient. Happiness can be a breeze."
The thing we all need to remember, is that happiness begins with being thankful, our psychics report. "I always say that I know it's going to be a good day when I open my eyes in the morning because I have been given yet another day of life to enjoy in this world," suggests Clairvoyant Donna ext. 9448. "Happiness is a decision, not something that someone else or events in the world set into motion for you. You set the tone to be happy. Create a positive intent every day and more happiness will come your way."
"Make a list of all the good things about you, your strengths, positive traits, skills, all the good you have done and can do," Bobbi ext. 9465 adds. "Build your list to nurture all you are proud and grateful for - each and every day. This is your happiness: measure it, contain it and make it grow."
Do things that make you feel good, and happy feelings will just kick in. Happiness requires you to be present in the now, it requires the awareness that we will feel longing and hurt and pain as part of the human experience during our lifetime, but we have the hope to see beyond it, our psychics urge.
If you can't find your happiness, consider that perhaps you are being too hard on yourself. "Many of us are living with outdated and rigid expectations of ourselves, an impossible list of shoulds that others (or our younger selves) may have listed as goals for us. And even though we are now adults, and can make our own choices, those old rules may be impacting our happiness," Clairvoyant Maryanne ext. 9146 reports. The answer is to work on getting rid of these ideas of perfection that hold back happiness.
"Take control of your personal power and reset your focus on simple things first," TeriLynn ext. 9625 advises. "Love the day, the clouds, the flower, the air… It can sound rather simplistic, but it works. Happiness is easier to come by with courage and optimism. Decide every day that no matter what challenges come to you, this is your day to feel wonderful. Use simple non-judgmental affirmations to help empower your sense of fulfillment: I am happy being me today. I look forward to each fun-filled day. I am proud of the challenges I can resolve. "
Once we understand how to create happiness for ourselves, we can proceed to sharing that inner light through acts of kindness with the world, Mystic encourages. When we proceed from wanting selfish happiness to sharing happiness we are truly on the road to lasting happiness!
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