"You do have choices in life but it's important not to let your fears hold you back," affirms Melinda ext. 9579, a psychic who uses the Tarot to focus the energy and messages she gets from her spirit guides and visions.
This is a piece of truth Betty (not her real name) definitely needed to hear! Luckily, the 65-year-old grandmother from Illinois had reached out to Melinda for some much needed advice and comfort. She had also called to inquire about a relationship she was "sort of having."
Melinda tuned in to her client's energy and quickly sensed that she was a lonely widow who had a tendency to make things more complicated for herself than need be. The man in question was a friend of her late husband. The two had started seeing each other four years after he had passed away. Yet she hadn't heard from him since she'd moved into a rehabilitation center to deal with a heart condition two months prior.
The psychic could also tell that her health issues were stress-related. She was so worried about being alone that she was turning that fear into a reality. "Let's just say she was a bit of a hypochondriac who was living in victim mode," says Melinda. And because she was so lonely, she was wasting her energy on a guy who clearly didn't care about her.
"I told her that she didn't need me to tell her that this man wasn't serious. The proof was in the pudding. I was more concerned with her state of mind. She had a lot of life ahead of her, but it seemed like Betty had given up."
Betty agreed. She felt that her life was over. But Melinda envisioned a different scenario: she saw her surrounded by family, enjoying life in a warm climate, doing water aerobics in a pool and corresponding to friends via emails.
"My daughter lives in Florida but she's always screaming at me so that won't happen. And my son travels a lot so he gave me a computer to send him emails but it's still in a box. I don't know how to use it!"
For starters, Betty needed to gain perspective and positivity so she could return home and turn her life around. She needed to focus on healing and everything else would fall into place. She also saw a young person "two doors down" who would be delighted to teach her how to use the computer.
As for her daughter, Melinda explained to Betty that she got angry because she felt helpless. Betty was always complaining and crying and her daughter didn't know what to do. She felt her mother used tears to get attention and pity and she was right.
"You get to create your life," Melinda told Betty. "How would you like to see it?"
"I want to be reunited with my family but I don't want to be a burden," Betty said.
"Then don't," Melinda responded. Betty kept in touch with Melinda. The clairvoyant became a cheerleader of sorts, keeping her on track and motivating her to heal and make the most of her life. Soon she was back home, her heart palpitations had disappeared. Shortly afterward, her neighbor's daughter offered to teach her to use the computer.
With the right perspective, she no longer thought about her sort-of beau and her relationship with her daughter was comfortable and joyful. Then out of the blue, her daughter sent her an invitation to come to Florida via email.
Betty called and thanked Melinda profusely. She had given her the hope and verve to live again.
"It's difficult for anyone to see clearly when fear is eating away at us. But slowly Betty was able to see the light in her life and that happiness is a choice."
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