So You Wanna Date a Cancer?

Home is where the heart is

So… it's summer, and you're up for meeting new people. Between barbecues, ball games, and beach days you're wondering when and where you'll meet them - and if an initial spark with one may ignite something that lasts. If that person is a Cancer, use these little tidbits about this super-sensitive sign to see what lies ahead.

Truly a crab
And it's not just a reference to a constellation of stars! Cancers are one of the moodiest signs in the zodiac, and they're known to be - well, crabby! On the upside, while your crab may retreat into their shell when wounded or particularly emotional (and sometimes they're stung without reason), there is no doubting a Cancer's capacity to feel deeply.

Crunchy on the outside, chewy on the inside (more like chocolate chip cookies than crustaceans), Cancers possess an intense desire to bond, and a romantic streak to rival the dreamiest Pisces. But they're easily hurt, and need to be handled with care. So while it may be tough to get to know your Cancerian comrade, if you crack that shell you may find you're endeared forever - and once caught, squeezed tightly in their clutches! That's right… if Cancer is smitten, they can be clingy, which can be a good or a bad thing - depending on your needs and attitudes.

Home sweet home
Never a bigger homebody shall you meet than a Cancer. Known for the desire to hole up for long stretches, it's understandable why Cancerians invest time and money into their abodes. On the other hand, Crabs are also known for their workaholic ways, and the desire to be social. So it's not like you'll never leave the house or have to plan on every weekend in. It can be quite the opposite - as long as the crab has a home to retreat to afterwards.

You'll be expected to socialize regularly when dating a Cancer (their friends are very important to them - as is schmoozing), because this water sign is known for climbing the corporate ladder. They also place a high value on financial security, which means you'll probably play host regularly to guests in your Cancer's cozy home.

Caretaking
With Cancer, it's all mom, all the time. This may not translate directly into your Cancer's particular mother, but Cancers do have a maternal streak, which manifests as respect for motherhood, and the desire to take care of those around them. In some Cancers, this may take on a more symbolic bent - like a love for the ultimate maternal figure - Mother Nature. One thing is sure: man or woman, Cancer equals caretaker. So much so that without the ability to help care for a partner, the Crab may feel useless.

On the other hand, Cancer also requires mothering. Crabs of both genders will want a mate who will care for them with as much effort as they put in themselves. If you can cook and you enjoy decorating, a Cancer will appreciate your talents (and probably share them). Lastly, no typical Crab will be financially dependent on their mate. It goes against their workaholic nature. Nor will a healthy, confident Crab want a mate to be completely dependent upon them!

The biggest thing to remember when you encounter a Cancer is that they're generally a fearful lot that is afraid of being hurt and of making the first move. So don't mistake trepidation for lack of interest. That said, they can be dynamic and charming, and are some of the most giving people you'll come across. A Cancer loves deeply, and will go to the ends of the earth for someone for whom they feel safe. Make them feel safe, and you may find that you've met your match - a giving lover and friend who places a high value on you and your comfort.