So… it's summer (officially) and you're single. Between barbecues and ball games and beach days you're wondering when and where you'll meet your summer fling… and if that initial spark will ignite something lasting. Or maybe you've got someone special in your sights… Well, if that person happens to be a Cancer, then today's your lucky day! Since it's not only the Summer Solstice but also the first day the Sun spends in the sign of The Crab, we thought we'd give you a little bit about the good (and not so good) sides of this super-sensitive sign!
Cancer is The Crab for a Reason
And it's not just a reference to a constellation of stars! Cancers are the one of the moodiest signs in the zodiac and they're known to be, well, crabby! On the upside, while your crab may retreat into his shell when wounded or particularly emotional (and sometimes they're stung without reason), there is no doubting a Cancer's capacity to feel deeply. Crunchy on the outside, chewy on the inside (more like a chocolate chip cookie than a crustacean), Cancers possess an intense desire to bond and a romantic streak to rival the dreamiest Pisces. But they're easily hurt and need to be handled with care.
So while it may be tough to get to know your Cancerian comrade, crack the shell and you may find you're endeared forever -- and caught, squeezed tightly in his clutches! That's right… if Cancer is smitten, they can be clingy, which can be a good or a bad thing depending on your needs and attitudes.
Home is Where The Crab Is… Sometimes
Never a bigger homebody shall you meet than a Cancer! Known for the desire to hole up for long stretches, it's understandable why Cancerians would invest time and money into their abodes. On the other hand however, Crabs are also known for their workaholic ways and the desire to be social. So it's not like you'll never leave the house or should plan on every weekend in.
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While you'll be expected to socialize regularly when dating a Cancer (their friends are very important to them as is schoozing -- Cancers are known for climbing the corporate ladder and place a high value on financial security), you'll get to spend your down time in a place of comfort and probably play host to guests -- a plus when the home from which you're hosting is as cozy as a Cancer's.
Cancer=Caretaker
It's been said before that a guy who loves his mom has better odds of being a good guy (when it comes to the ladies at least)… and with Cancer, it's all mom, all the time. Now this may not translate directly with your Cancer's particular mother (and it certainly doesn't imply Mamma's boy if your Crab is a man), but Cancers have a maternal streak, which comes forth as respect for the mom/the place of motherhood and the desire to take care of those around them. In some Cancers, this may take on a more symbolic bent -- like a love for the ultimate maternal figure -- Mother Nature. One thing is for sure, man or woman, Cancer=caretaker. So much so, that without the ability to help care for a partner, the Crab may feel useless.
On the other hand, Cancer also requires mothering. Crabs of both genders will want a mate that will be keen to care for them with as much effort as they put in themselves… If you can cook and enjoy decorating a Cancer will appreciate your talents (and probably share them)… Lastly, no typical Crab will be financially dependent on their mate. It goes against their workaholic nature. Nor will a healthy, confident Crab want a mate to be completely dependent upon them!
The biggest thing to remember when you encounter a Cancer is that they're generally a fearful lot… afraid of being hurt, afraid of making the first move. So don't mistake trepidation for lack of interest. That said, they can be dynamic and charming and are some of the most giving people you'll come across. A Cancer loves deeply and will go to the ends of the earth for someone with whom they feel safe. Make them feel safe and you may find you've met your match: a giving lover and friend who places a high value on you and your comfort.
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