The Sexual Secret

An overlooked path to a satisfying sex life

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Sex should be easy, right? Should. What a word.

The one simple truth is that life is complicated. And sex, one of humankind's most pleasurable and necessary activities (think about it - it's a requirement for the proliferation of our species!), is also complex and influenced by many factors. There's an actual, chemical science to who's attracted to whom, who likes it how and who wants it when. Like most things on this amazing planet Earth, there's a magic to it, too. And if you're one of the zillions of couples who feel as if their sexual spark has - poof - magically disappeared, it can be seriously disheartening.

Common ground, role play and erotica
The good news is, most of the time we can get it back. And there's one really easy place to start: find common ground! Let's face it, for better or worse (worse, really, but who's judging?), many people - women in particular - are embarrassed about sex and sexual situations. So, while incorporating some erotica (books, videos, whatever) or raring up for role-play would probably help heat things up (and those are just two examples), are you really willing to go there? If you are, congratulations, they're both great ideas and you're ahead of the sexually frustrated crowd! But if you're a little bit more shy about such sensitive subjects, while you work on bringing out your inner Scorpio, remember (and implore) this oft-overlooked sexual secret: even the least sexual of acts enjoyed together can jump start your sex life!

Shared passion
Remember that whole complicated life thing? Well it's true. In addition to raging hormones, there are reasons why teenagers always want to get it on: for starters, they've got the time! As adults, responsibilities get in the way of "recreational" activities. We get tired and there's only so much time in the day. Sadly, sex often comes lower on the priority list than our hobbies, since we see those as stress relievers. And god knows, we need all the stress relief we can get! News flash, everyone! Sex is a stress reliever. And if you fear you've lost your attraction to your mate, think again. You might just need to see them in the light of something else - something the two of you both love!

Get out!
Whether you get out the Sunday crossword, go on a sunset hike, spend a day on the water, or savoring a bottle of really nice wine after work, find something that you love to do together - and do it! The more often, the better! But with the expressed intention of keeping things lively, not making them routine. The goal is to see new things in each other (and find a new way of being intimate) in order to rev up the physical intimacy.

Just your imagination
Find ways to change things up. Pretend you are on a first date and flirt with each other, drive a half hour extra for the more scenic beach. Keep an eye out for the newest restaurants to try. Plan a trip to a gathering of similarly inspired people - even if it's just for a weekend. Whatever your passion is, give it emphasis in your relationship. Send each other email notes when you learn new things about it. Make an event of things. Create the feeling that you're a team in this one area and you'll be surprised at what happens in others. You'll bond. Then all the excitement you create for (fill in the blank) sports/antiques/food/adventure will translate to the bedroom … and if you're at all adventurous, way beyond!