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Follow these tips and you can say goodbye to loneliness and hello to LOVE!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Learn from the past&#8230;<\/span><br \/>\nAll the self-help books in the world will never compare to the lessons your own life can teach you. But don&#8217;t just look at your past romances in terms of success or failure &#8212; try to see them as learning experiences that have brought you one step closer to the happy, healthy relationship you deserve.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to patterns in your life. If you always tend to get burned by a certain kind of man, ask yourself why you continue to be drawn to him and what you can do to make better choices moving forward.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">&#8230;Then let it go<\/span><br \/>\nWhen examined with a healthy distance and perspective, your personal history can be incredibly instructive. But when you dwell on the past rather than moving forward, it can become incredibly destructive.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re hanging on to the same ideal of a partner that you&#8217;ve had since you were sixteen, chances are you&#8217;re not living in the present. If you&#8217;re hoping to rekindle a long-dead romance from the past, you&#8217;re probably not open to finding someone new to build a future with.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Take stock<\/span><br \/>\nThe first step to moving forward? Clarify what you&#8217;re looking for by putting your thoughts down on paper. Make a list of all the things you want in a partner. Then make another list of &#8220;non-negotiables&#8221; &#8212; things you aren&#8217;t willing to compromise, no matter how good he looks in those jeans.<\/p>\n<p>Next, make some lists about yourself. What kind of partner do you want to be? What are you best characteristics &#8212; and what are things you&#8217;d like to work on? You&#8217;re not writing New Year&#8217;s resolutions here, you&#8217;re taking an honest inventory of who you are in the moment &#8212; and who you want to be in the comings days, months and years of your life.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Make a plan<\/span><br \/>\nOnce you&#8217;ve laid out who you are and what you&#8217;re looking for, you can make a plan for how to connect the two. Make a list of ways you can seek out new friends and create opportunities to meet potential partners, like playing on a recreational sports team, joining a book club, or taking a class. Then think of ways you can hold yourself accountable to these goals. Make a pact to go out on a date once a month &#8211; even if you have to ask out a stranger on the last day of the month!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<table border=\"0\" width=\"100%\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"1\" bgcolor=\"#0033cc\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<table border=\"0\" width=\"100%\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"3\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"text\" bgcolor=\"#cdeafc\"><strong>Is 2007 your year for love? Call 1.800.573.4830 or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=103258\">click here<\/a> now.<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The end of the year is a time to reminisce about the past and hope for the future. But too often, people turn this time of reflection into an excuse to wallow in self-pity, loneliness and despair. 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