{"id":846000,"date":"2006-10-26T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2006-10-26T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2006\/10\/red-responds-82.html\/"},"modified":"2016-05-11T15:35:17","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T22:35:17","slug":"red-responds-82","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/red-responds-82.html","title":{"rendered":"Red Responds: Someone to Share the Good Times and Bad Times With"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear Red,<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

I just seem to have no luck in relationships. I was married and my ex decided when I was
\nseven months pregnant that he did not want a family (we planned this together in
\nagreement) and walked out on me. We divorced soon after. I dated a
\nman for about six months and found he was still in love with his ex. I
\nthought I found my soul mate but one day it just ended and I do not know
\nwhy. Am I ever going to find true love? I am so lonely and would
\nlike to have someone to share the good times and bad times
\nwith.<\/p>\n

\n

Ginger in Lawrenceville<\/span>
\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\n

Dear Ginger,<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\n

You really have had a run of bad
\nluck when it comes to relationships!
\nBut that’s primarily what it is; just a somewhat long and drawn out run
\nof bad luck. This pattern will not
\nlast forever; it will shift and change. But it is going to take time.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\n

Being alone always comes with it’s
\nown set of challenges, and falling into habitual loneliness is probably the
\nbiggest challenge. Loneliness even
\nsettles in among people who are in relationships. It is as much a state of being as it is
\na state of mind. This is something
\nthat you have the power to affect while you’re waiting for love to come into
\nyour life. Changing the state of
\nmind does change the state of being.
\nDeveloping more active relationships with friends and family helps, as
\ndoes finding joy and fulfillment in activities that can be done alone. These things don’t expedite the onset of
\na stable and loving romantic relationship, but they do make the time between now
\nand then feel much less like a punishment and more like living a
\nlife.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\n

You are not destined to go through
\nthis life alone, but you do have a bit of a bumpy path in front of you before
\nyou do find yourself in a relationship that will endure the good times and the
\nbad. Unfortunately, you still have
\nto recognize you are kissing a couple of more frogs before you finally get to
\nyour prince. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\n

Take control of your life and your
\nemotions. When you are dating,
\nenjoy the dating experience for what it is at that moment, rather than where you
\nthink you would like it to go. You
\nseem to go from zero to relationship status pretty quickly, trying to create
\nsecurity and fill the void. Just
\nkeep in the back of your mind, through the next year to two years, that you will
\nhave the relationship you want; just maybe not with the man who is sitting
\nacross the table from you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\n

I see marriage for you, but not
\nwithin the next two years. It is
\nwith a man you will meet after that time period. So while you will have what you want,
\nyou are not going to have it now, which is when you want it. You now face a choice: Do you sit back
\nfor the next couple of years wanting and waiting, or do you live life to fullest
\neach day knowing that when love finds you – it will be the real deal? <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Brightest Blessings,
\nRed
\nExt. 9226 <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\n
Tired of kissing frogs? Let one of our Love Psychics help you find a prince. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here<\/a> now.<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Red, I just seem to have no luck in relationships. I was married and my ex decided when I was seven months pregnant that he did not want a family (we planned this together in agreement) and walked out on me. We divorced soon after. I dated a man for about six months and found he was still in love with his ex. I thought I found my soul mate but one day it just ended and I do not know why. Am I ever going to find true love? I am so lonely and would like to have someone to share the good times and bad times with. Ginger in Lawrenceville Dear Ginger, You really have had a run of bad luck when it comes to relationships! But that’s primarily what it is; just a somewhat long and drawn out run of bad luck. This pattern will not last forever; it will shift and change. But it is going to take time. Being alone always comes with it’s own set of challenges, and falling into habitual loneliness is probably the biggest challenge. Loneliness even settles in among people who are in relationships. It is as much a state of being as it is a state of mind. This is something that you have the power to affect while you’re waiting for love to come into your life. Changing the state of mind does change the state of being. Developing more active relationships with friends and family helps, as does finding joy and fulfillment in activities that can be done alone. These things don’t expedite the onset of a stable and loving romantic relationship, but they do make the time between now and then feel much less like a punishment and more like living a life. You are not destined to go through this life alone, but you do have a bit of a bumpy path in front of you before you do find yourself in a relationship that will endure the good times and the bad. Unfortunately, you still have to recognize you are kissing a couple of more frogs before you finally get to your prince. Take control of your life and your emotions. When you are dating, enjoy the dating experience for what it is at that moment, rather than where you think you would like it to go. You seem to go from zero to relationship status pretty quickly, trying to create security and fill the void. Just keep in the back of your mind, through the next year to two years, that you will have the relationship you want; just maybe not with the man who is sitting across the table from you. I see marriage for you, but not within the next two years. It is with a man you will meet after that time period. So while you will have what you want, you are not going to have it now, which is when you want it. You now face a choice: Do you sit back for the next couple of years wanting and waiting, or do you live life to fullest each day knowing that when love finds you – it will be the real deal? \u00a0 Brightest Blessings, Red Ext. 9226 Tired of kissing frogs? Let one of our Love Psychics help you find a prince. 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