{"id":845000,"date":"2006-10-24T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2006-10-24T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2006\/10\/red-responds-81.html\/"},"modified":"2016-05-11T15:35:59","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T22:35:59","slug":"red-responds-81","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/red-responds-81.html","title":{"rendered":"Red Responds: He Broke Up With Her Over Text"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear Red,<\/span><\/p>\n

I was in a relationship for five years and five months – it was a roller coaster ride for me and my boyfriend. We were talking about engagement and getting married after he finished his law studies, but to my surprise, he abruptly left me last January — and did not even talk to me in person! Rather, he texted me that he was leaving without really saying the real reason. My friends told me that it was because he has found a new girl.
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

I want to know if he will come back to me and if we can start again. I really love this guy! But if not, is there someone for me? When and how will I meet him? Please help me, I’m so confused!<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

Angelica in Manila<\/span>
\n<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Dear Angelica,<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

I’m sorry to tell you that your
\nfriends are right, but your ex did find someone new. <\/span><\/p>\n

\n

Before I answer your other
\nquestions, I would like for you to just take a moment and really think about why
\nyou still love this man. From where
\nI sit, there’s not a whole bunch about him to like, much less love. I’m not saying that he’s a horrible
\nperson, but in terms of relationships, he has a lot to learn. In the time that you shared with him, he
\ncompletely and repeatedly disrespected you on a fairly regular
\nbasis.<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

There is a chance you will see him
\nagain, completely by accident, but it is nothing more than a brief and somewhat
\nawkward encounter. I don’t see him
\nbeing open to exploring any romantic possibilities. He’s changed quite a bit from the person
\nyou knew and loved.<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

For some people, new love enters
\ntheir realm and makes the healing of a broken heart a much easier process. Unfortunately, it seems that you have
\nsome hard work ahead of you in terms of healing the hurts that cling to you from
\nthis relationship. Until you learn
\nto let go and move on with confidence, your special someone seems to be held at
\nbay. It’s almost as if the Universe
\nknows that you’re in a very fragile and vulnerable state, and is protecting you
\nfrom making a huge mistake.<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

I do see some light dating for you
\nin the course of the next four months, but not that ultimate love you are hoping
\nfor. We tend to attract what we
\nproject. Your future husband will
\ncome into the picture just about when you’ve given up on finding someone to
\nshare your life with; because that is when you really start loving
\nyourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

\n

Brightest Blessings,
\nRed
\nExt. 9226 <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\n
Did your love leave you? Let one of our Love Psychics tell you when the next one will come. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here<\/a> now.<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Red, I was in a relationship for five years and five months – it was a roller coaster ride for me and my boyfriend. We were talking about engagement and getting married after he finished his law studies, but to my surprise, he abruptly left me last January — and did not even talk to me in person! Rather, he texted me that he was leaving without really saying the real reason. My friends told me that it was because he has found a new girl. I want to know if he will come back to me and if we can start again. I really love this guy! But if not, is there someone for me? When and how will I meet him? Please help me, I’m so confused! Angelica in Manila \u00a0 \u00a0 Dear Angelica, I’m sorry to tell you that your friends are right, but your ex did find someone new. Before I answer your other questions, I would like for you to just take a moment and really think about why you still love this man. From where I sit, there’s not a whole bunch about him to like, much less love. I’m not saying that he’s a horrible person, but in terms of relationships, he has a lot to learn. In the time that you shared with him, he completely and repeatedly disrespected you on a fairly regular basis. There is a chance you will see him again, completely by accident, but it is nothing more than a brief and somewhat awkward encounter. I don’t see him being open to exploring any romantic possibilities. He’s changed quite a bit from the person you knew and loved. For some people, new love enters their realm and makes the healing of a broken heart a much easier process. Unfortunately, it seems that you have some hard work ahead of you in terms of healing the hurts that cling to you from this relationship. Until you learn to let go and move on with confidence, your special someone seems to be held at bay. It’s almost as if the Universe knows that you’re in a very fragile and vulnerable state, and is protecting you from making a huge mistake. I do see some light dating for you in the course of the next four months, but not that ultimate love you are hoping for. We tend to attract what we project. Your future husband will come into the picture just about when you’ve given up on finding someone to share your life with; because that is when you really start loving yourself. Brightest Blessings, Red Ext. 9226 Did your love leave you? Let one of our Love Psychics tell you when the next one will come. 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