{"id":777000,"date":"2006-10-03T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2006-10-03T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2006\/10\/red-responds-73.html\/"},"modified":"2016-05-11T16:41:32","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T23:41:32","slug":"red-responds-73","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/red-responds-73.html","title":{"rendered":"Red Responds: Sometimes Our Heads Know More Than Our Hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear Red,<\/p>\n

\n

I was in a
\nbeautiful 2 year relationship with a woman I’m sure was my soulmate. She went to
\nLA for school, and the distance spoiled her idea of commitment. Now its been 2
\n1\/2 years and we haven’t spoken, still I love her with all of my heart! I still
\nfeel we are a match made in the stars. I’ve made it through the pain. Should I hold out hope on my dream girl, or close the door and take our
\nrelationship as a learning experience? My heart says she’s the one, my head
\nsays move on and don’t look back. What should I do?<\/p>\n

\n

Lost in
\nLove<\/span><\/p>\n

Dear Lost in Love,<\/p>\n

Sometimes our heads know much
\nmore than our hearts. It’s a
\npainful reality that most of experience at least once in our journey through
\nthis life.<\/p>\n

There is no quick cure to stop
\nloving someone when they have stopped loving us. While there is really nothing I can do
\nor say to help you with that particular issue, I can tell you that letting go of
\nthe dream will help.<\/p>\n

The relationship you had shared
\nwith your ex is over, and it is time to move on. As for closing the door, that is really
\nthe only thing you can do, because she isn’t on the other side of it.<\/p>\n

You two shared a fabulous
\njourney, and for that, be grateful.
\nThere are so many more good memories than bad. And while it was a good relationship
\nwhile it lasted, each of you are supposed to be on separate paths at this point
\nin time. You will see her again,
\nbut the relationship will be one of friends, not lovers.<\/p>\n

Each time we find love, it is
\ndifferent than the time before.
\nSometimes better, sometimes worse.
\nAnd there are always different levels of connection involved as
\nwell. While you may not believe
\nthis at the moment, there is an even greater love and more powerful connection
\nthat lies ahead of you. In time,
\nyou will meet her. For now, you
\nmust continue to heal.<\/p>\n

I really hate being the Grimm
\nReader\u2026<\/p>\n

Brightest Blessings,
\nRed
\nExt. 9226<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\n
Do you need to move on, or wait for your dream? Let one of our Love Psychics guide the way. Call 1.800.573.4830 or click here<\/a> now.<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Red, I was in a beautiful 2 year relationship with a woman I’m sure was my soulmate. She went to LA for school, and the distance spoiled her idea of commitment. Now its been 2 1\/2 years and we haven’t spoken, still I love her with all of my heart! I still feel we are a match made in the stars. I’ve made it through the pain. Should I hold out hope on my dream girl, or close the door and take our relationship as a learning experience? My heart says she’s the one, my head says move on and don’t look back. What should I do? Lost in Love Dear Lost in Love, Sometimes our heads know much more than our hearts. It’s a painful reality that most of experience at least once in our journey through this life. There is no quick cure to stop loving someone when they have stopped loving us. While there is really nothing I can do or say to help you with that particular issue, I can tell you that letting go of the dream will help. The relationship you had shared with your ex is over, and it is time to move on. As for closing the door, that is really the only thing you can do, because she isn’t on the other side of it. You two shared a fabulous journey, and for that, be grateful. There are so many more good memories than bad. And while it was a good relationship while it lasted, each of you are supposed to be on separate paths at this point in time. You will see her again, but the relationship will be one of friends, not lovers. Each time we find love, it is different than the time before. Sometimes better, sometimes worse. And there are always different levels of connection involved as well. While you may not believe this at the moment, there is an even greater love and more powerful connection that lies ahead of you. In time, you will meet her. For now, you must continue to heal. I really hate being the Grimm Reader\u2026 Brightest Blessings, Red Ext. 9226 Do you need to move on, or wait for your dream? Let one of our Love Psychics guide the way. 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