{"id":7766,"date":"2010-06-26T05:00:57","date_gmt":"2010-06-26T12:00:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=7766"},"modified":"2010-09-02T12:59:43","modified_gmt":"2010-09-02T19:59:43","slug":"looking-for-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/looking-for-love.html","title":{"rendered":"Looking for Love in All the Right Places"},"content":{"rendered":"

One of the questions I often answer for people is how and where they will meet their new love. Many of you don\u2019t believe in \u201cbar hopping,\u201d and statistics show that bars aren\u2019t a great place to find a long term relationship<\/strong><\/a>, especially if you\u2019re over 28 years old. So where can you go? Well, the answer is in what I \u201csee\u201d in the futures I read!<\/p>\n

This changes with the seasons<\/strong><\/a>. For the summer, I see many connections happening at parties, barbecues, and outside gatherings like company picnics. Try going with a friend to their family reunion or company baseball game. I have seen some \u201cmeetings\u201d happening while somebody is out to a movie or a meal with friends, and runs into somebody new in the process. Then there are the ever-available classes, workshops, and training seminars! I even saw one couple finding each other at a sales meeting where they sell timeshares on the lake front!<\/p>\n

The question usually comes back to: \u201cWhat are you doing to get out there and be exposed to more people so that you can find a connection?\u201d Many of you work a lot, or have busy lives, and just don\u2019t have time for \u201copen ended social events\u201d\u2026 my advice is, \u201cMake time.\u201d<\/p>\n

There are many online dating services, yet many seem to be overrun with inauthentic individuals using them as \u201cfishing sites\u201d instead of looking for a long term relationship. However, that is not to say that they\u2019re all that way, or<\/em> to say that it won\u2019t work for some of you. My sister is married to her eHarmony love!<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re waiting for someone to come along and inspire you to \u201cget over\u201d someone, that just isn\u2019t going to work. Your heart is already \u201cconnected\u201d to someone \u2013 you don\u2019t look into people\u2019s eyes; you don\u2019t go out, since you\u2019re \u201csad\u201d about being alone; you don\u2019t put yourself in situations where it could be awkward for a moment (which is always how it starts); you look down, or away, instead of getting eye contact<\/strong><\/a> and encouraging that person to say: \u201cHello, my name is\u2026\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

What do you think \u2013 what\u2019s the best way to find somebody new?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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