{"id":736000,"date":"2006-09-10T17:00:00","date_gmt":"2006-09-10T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2006\/09\/red-responds-65.html\/"},"modified":"2016-05-11T16:59:46","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T23:59:46","slug":"red-responds-65","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/red-responds-65.html","title":{"rendered":"Red Responds: He Can’t Get Over His Ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dear Red,<\/span><\/p>\n

I am a gay person who is still in love with my former partner. Originally from Long Island, I moved to Virginia in July, 2005 for an employment opportunity. We have had a stormy relationship, at times, but I feel that this person is my soul mate. He hasn’t responded to my emails. I haven’t communicated with him for quite sometime, because I feel he doesn’t want to reconnect. His birthdate is 12-4-52 and mine is 9-21-50. I wonder if we will ever reconnect again. I can’t seem to get over him even though I have been dating another person.<\/span><\/p>\n

Thank you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Anthony in Manassas<\/em><\/p>\n

Dear Anthony,<\/p>\n

While I do think you will hear from your former partner, most likely around the holidays, I really don’t want to get your hopes up relative to this relationship.<\/p>\n

It appears that you two will share a conversation, following written communication. It looks more like snail-mail than email for the initial contact. The conversation is fairly light; almost like a courtesy call. It will be relatively brief.<\/p>\n

It seems as though your old flame has determined to move on with his life. A slightly guarded and uncomfortable “keeping in touch” relationship is possible, but I don’t see the two of you coming back together or connecting on any real level. And with as much love as you still have for this man, I really want you to prepare for this and be careful.<\/p>\n

I honestly don’t know that you will ever “get over” him completely. That’s the down side of truly loving someone. Hope does keep love alive – it gives it power. You are still holding on to hope, even though your logical mind tells you it’s not practical. I could give you a list of reasons why you should let go of your hope and move on, but it’s up to you to decide to actually do it.<\/p>\n

As for your soul mate – well, let me just say I don’t think you’ve met him yet. He is out there, and he will find his way to you; when the time is right.<\/p>\n

Gay, straight, or bi – love is love. It brings with it the ultimate joys and highs of life, and leaves an aftermath of pain when it departs.<\/p>\n

Brightest Blessings,
\nRed
\nExt. 9226<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Is your soul mate still out there? Call one of our Psychics at 1.800.573.4830 or click here<\/a> to decide which path is best for you.<\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Red, I am a gay person who is still in love with my former partner. Originally from Long Island, I moved to Virginia in July, 2005 for an employment opportunity. We have had a stormy relationship, at times, but I feel that this person is my soul mate. He hasn’t responded to my emails. I haven’t communicated with him for quite sometime, because I feel he doesn’t want to reconnect. His birthdate is 12-4-52 and mine is 9-21-50. I wonder if we will ever reconnect again. I can’t seem to get over him even though I have been dating another person. Thank you. Anthony in Manassas Dear Anthony, While I do think you will hear from your former partner, most likely around the holidays, I really don’t want to get your hopes up relative to this relationship. It appears that you two will share a conversation, following written communication. It looks more like snail-mail than email for the initial contact. The conversation is fairly light; almost like a courtesy call. It will be relatively brief. It seems as though your old flame has determined to move on with his life. A slightly guarded and uncomfortable “keeping in touch” relationship is possible, but I don’t see the two of you coming back together or connecting on any real level. And with as much love as you still have for this man, I really want you to prepare for this and be careful. I honestly don’t know that you will ever “get over” him completely. That’s the down side of truly loving someone. Hope does keep love alive – it gives it power. You are still holding on to hope, even though your logical mind tells you it’s not practical. I could give you a list of reasons why you should let go of your hope and move on, but it’s up to you to decide to actually do it. As for your soul mate – well, let me just say I don’t think you’ve met him yet. He is out there, and he will find his way to you; when the time is right. Gay, straight, or bi – love is love. It brings with it the ultimate joys and highs of life, and leaves an aftermath of pain when it departs. Brightest Blessings, Red Ext. 9226 Is your soul mate still out there? 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