{"id":6157,"date":"2010-05-16T01:11:04","date_gmt":"2010-05-16T08:11:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=6157"},"modified":"2010-12-27T08:29:33","modified_gmt":"2010-12-27T16:29:33","slug":"manifesting-the-right-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/manifesting-the-right-relationship.html","title":{"rendered":"Manifesting the Right Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"

Before you give a shout out to the universe<\/strong><\/a> that you\u2019re ready to move on from being a half to being a whole, keep in mind that you\u2019re not going to get the match made in heaven if you don\u2019t first have some clarity as to what it is you\u2019re really looking for. Here are a few steps to get you moving in the right direction so that you can make the transition more successfully.<\/p>\n

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1. Think about what it is that you\u2019re really looking for in a long term partner. Are <\/em>you into sporting events, camping and fishing, cars, hanging out and being social, or private evenings together at museums and plays? Where are you most comfortable? Which type of guy can you easily be yourself with? What kind of guy will you be less likely to want to change down the road?<\/p>\n

2. Have you dated guys in the past because you were influenced by family or friends? If so, the first thing to recognize is that you<\/em> are more than capable of attracting, getting, and keeping the kind of guy you <\/em>want. Besides, how can a girl be herself when she\u2019s hanging out with someone who has interests and a personality that really don\u2019t mesh with her own? Create your own expectations and your own roadmap to relationship success.<\/p>\n

3. Make it a point to surround yourself with friends that have interests most closely mirroring those types of influences you\u2019d like more of in your life. While social sites and online dating can have great success rates, you are also very likely to meet \u201cthat guy\u201d if you allow yourself to be in situations where you increase your chances of meeting him. Even if you like watching loads of reality TV and want a snuggle partner while you do it, if you spend all your evenings and weekends in front of the tube, you\u2019ll never find \u201cthat guy.\u201d<\/p>\n

4. Get out and meet people! Look for community events and interest groups that you can bring a friend to the first couple times for support. Even church can be a great place to meet someone new. The point is, if you don\u2019t widen your social circle to make yourself visible and make (sometimes uncomfortable) efforts to put your energy out to the universe that you\u2019re ready to be a double instead of a single<\/strong><\/a>, you\u2019re selling yourself short.<\/p>\n

Relationships should provide a high level of support, feelings of common ground and compatibility, and attraction. If you like guys that come home from work in a clean white shirt, the blue collar with dirty boots is likely to fall short with you in the long run. Alternatively, if you\u2019re not the ultra feminine type, you may find yourself trying to be someone you\u2019re not if your guy does. Knowing who you are and what you want and deserve in a relationship first are the keys to success you need. Don\u2019t sell yourself short in being someone you\u2019re not and\/or dating guys that really don\u2019t meet your standards now and likely won\u2019t in the long run, either. Keep in mind that relationships<\/a> <\/strong>are similar to construction: To have a strong structure that lasts, you need a good foundation to start.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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