Human emotions are messy. Kindergarteners seem to have them figured out, so why can\u2019t we? We are complicated beings with frequently conflicting desires like security vs. excitement, selfishness vs. self-sacrifice, and competition vs. cooperation. Add to this mix the complexity within three or more different individuals in love and you\u2019ve got a spicy gumbo, for sure.<\/p>\n
In rare cases, an above-board three-way relationship works, and works well, for all participants. And, this is great, as long as everyone is happy, and everyone is getting the emotional fulfillment that they need. Even here though, sometimes two members of the trio eventually splinter off into a couple, as preferences emerge with time.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s truly very important to respect the boundaries of other people and their commitments and to remember that \u201ckarma flows.\u201d Here as elsewhere however, sometimes the lines are not that clearly defined, even for those caught in a love triangle.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s be honest, because relationships seldom begin and end in neat little packages of time and circumstance. They tend, for a while at least, to overlap one another, change and shift everything and everybody they touch, and cause all kinds of complexities and confusion. At the same time, they enrich our lives, and bring about the opportunity for lots of spiritual learning.<\/p>\n
Additionally, relationships are affected by societal, economic, and cultural forces beyond our control. Wars, pandemics, economic extremes, and the constraints of time and space influence and control the outcome of relationships. Relationships change the world and the world changes relationships.<\/p>\n
From the spiritual perspective: everyone, all the time! What\u2019s truly best for one is ultimately best for all. Whether we realize it or not, we are always working cooperatively for the highest good of all that is, as our spiritual evolution unfolds.<\/p>\n
We are infinite spiritual beings, but we have finite physical needs. This is where we tend to get territorial and need to know what we can expect from people we\u2019ve invested a lot into.<\/p>\n
Example: Janet loved Mark, and so did Laura. Mark loved both Janet and Laura. When the two women found out about each other, they both \u201chit the roof.\u201d<\/p>\n
After much discussion, tears, recrimination, and accusation, Laura realized that Mark was not the partner she was looking for, after all. Janet and Mark on the other hand were able to heal their relationship with the help of a couple\u2019s counselor, and now it\u2019s stronger than ever. It is much more adequately defined for them both as a result of the pressure exerted by an \u201coutsider\u201d.<\/p>\n
Each of them is clearer than ever about how they will move forward towards deeper commitment. And, Laura has found someone new who she has come to see as her perfect partner for this lifetime, and has completely moved on.<\/p>\n
So, would you rather have a partner who stays with you out of \u201cself-sacrifice\u201d or because they really want to? There is no \u201cright\u201d answer to this question. Arguably, the answer could be yes or no with equal validity. But here is something to consider:<\/p>\n
We are not doing a favor to someone by taking up space in their life, when they could be free to find someone who is truly \u201cinto\u201d them. Being selfish is never the best option.<\/p>\n
Sometimes the impact of a love decision must take into consideration the feelings of children, or other family members, and those of your \u201crival\u201d as well. This will tend to work out best for you, too, in the long run. Here, being selfless might actually work in favor of what you most want. It depends on the specifics of the situation.<\/p>\n
The following Tarot spread will help you sort out your feelings in such situations.<\/p>\n
This is a simple, but profound, four-card spread using only Major Arcana Tarot cards that will help you find clarity in a love triangle. Here\u2019s how this one works, with an example spread:<\/p>\n
The Chariot-<\/strong> You\u2019re driving forward with a lot of will power and you\u2019re very clear of where you want to go when it comes to a relationship. You want things to move forward fast and you\u2019re not liable to ask too many questions along the way. A lot of your decisions are driven by ego and a need to be in control. You feel that if you can just focus clearly enough on what you want to manifest you can bend this situation to what you want.<\/p>\n The Sun-<\/strong> This interaction is full of energy, warm, and affectionate. It is optimistic and very public. Your friends think it is great, and you sense that you and this person will help each other succeed in the future. But, sometimes you search for something deeper and more nuanced in this relationship, and it simply isn\u2019t there. So, enter Lover 2.<\/p>\n The Hermit-<\/strong> This person doesn\u2019t care at all about appearances, and couldn\u2019t be paid to have their picture on your social media page. They are introspective, meditative, other-worldly, and wise. They spend most of their time at home and love quiet and seclusion. They are a great lover, sensitive and subtle. They don\u2019t care about financial success and really just want to wander wherever their soul leads them. You find deep peace in their presence.<\/p>\n The World- <\/strong>Hold tight, because what if it\u2019s neither of the first two lovers who is your true soul mate? This card indicates that someone you haven\u2019t yet met has more of what you really want than either of the first two. It pays to keep this in mind and stay open to what the Universe might be sending your way.<\/p>\n Let\u2019s look deeper. Really study, think about, and feel each card for a while. What is each card saying to you about yourself, Lover 1, Lover 2, and a possible \u201cnew\u201d future lover?<\/p>\n Which feels best to you now? How about tomorrow, and why? Which person promises, in a way you can believe, to give you more of what you want long term? Is a totally available, new, and totally right person just around the corner for you anyway?<\/p>\n These will lead you to your answer.<\/p>\n Ask your angels and guides for help. They are constantly working to keep us happy, if we listen. They can see the long view of the situation. They can see how the spiritual growth of each person will play out in the future. Maybe, it\u2019s not the right time to decide. That\u2019s a decision, too. Ultimately, all will unfold for the greatest good for all involved.<\/p>\n Being in love is a life experience that everyone deserves. Whether you\u2019re looking for your soulmate or wondering how to keep the romantic fires burning in your relationship, a love psychic<\/strong><\/a> can help. They want to see you happy and a psychic love reading<\/strong><\/a> is all you need to find or keep the love that is meant for you.<\/p>\n Find a love psychic<\/strong><\/a> or learn more about psychic love readings<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n About California Psychics<\/strong> Why Can\u2019t Love Be Simple? Human emotions are messy. Kindergarteners seem to have them figured out, so why can\u2019t we? We are complicated beings with frequently conflicting desires like security vs. excitement, selfishness vs. self-sacrifice, and competition vs. cooperation. Add to this mix the complexity within three or more different individuals in love and you\u2019ve got a spicy gumbo, for sure. In rare cases, an above-board three-way relationship works, and works well, for all participants. And, this is great, as long as everyone is happy, and everyone is getting the emotional fulfillment that they need. Even here though, sometimes two members of the trio eventually splinter off into a couple, as preferences emerge with time. It\u2019s truly very important to respect the boundaries of other people and their commitments and to remember that \u201ckarma flows.\u201d Here as elsewhere however, sometimes the lines are not that clearly defined, even for those caught in a love triangle. Haven\u2019t We All Been There? Let\u2019s be honest, because relationships seldom begin and end in neat little packages of time and circumstance. They tend, for a while at least, to overlap one another, change and shift everything and everybody they touch, and cause all kinds of complexities and confusion. At the same time, they enrich our lives, and bring about the opportunity for lots of spiritual learning. Additionally, relationships are affected by societal, economic, and cultural forces beyond our control. Wars, pandemics, economic extremes, and the constraints of time and space influence and control the outcome of relationships. Relationships change the world and the world changes relationships. The Question is: Who Wins? From the spiritual perspective: everyone, all the time! What\u2019s truly best for one is ultimately best for all. Whether we realize it or not, we are always working cooperatively for the highest good of all that is, as our spiritual evolution unfolds. We are infinite spiritual beings, but we have finite physical needs. This is where we tend to get territorial and need to know what we can expect from people we\u2019ve invested a lot into. Example: Janet loved Mark, and so did Laura. Mark loved both Janet and Laura. When the two women found out about each other, they both \u201chit the roof.\u201d After much discussion, tears, recrimination, and accusation, Laura realized that Mark was not the partner she was looking for, after all. Janet and Mark on the other hand were able to heal their relationship with the help of a couple\u2019s counselor, and now it\u2019s stronger than ever. It is much more adequately defined for them both as a result of the pressure exerted by an \u201coutsider\u201d. Each of them is clearer than ever about how they will move forward towards deeper commitment. And, Laura has found someone new who she has come to see as her perfect partner for this lifetime, and has completely moved on. The Choice in Love So, would you rather have a partner who stays with you out of \u201cself-sacrifice\u201d or because they really want to? There is no \u201cright\u201d answer to this question. Arguably, the answer could be yes or no with equal validity. But here is something to consider: We are not doing a favor to someone by taking up space in their life, when they could be free to find someone who is truly \u201cinto\u201d them. Being selfish is never the best option. Sometimes the impact of a love decision must take into consideration the feelings of children, or other family members, and those of your \u201crival\u201d as well. This will tend to work out best for you, too, in the long run. Here, being selfless might actually work in favor of what you most want. It depends on the specifics of the situation. The following Tarot spread will help you sort out your feelings in such situations. Love Triangle Tarot Spread This is a simple, but profound, four-card spread using only Major Arcana Tarot cards that will help you find clarity in a love triangle. Here\u2019s how this one works, with an example spread: Card One- You in the Situation The Chariot- You\u2019re driving forward with a lot of will power and you\u2019re very clear of where you want to go when it comes to a relationship. You want things to move forward fast and you\u2019re not liable to ask too many questions along the way. A lot of your decisions are driven by ego and a need to be in control. You feel that if you can just focus clearly enough on what you want to manifest you can bend this situation to what you want. Card Two- Lover 1 The Sun- This interaction is full of energy, warm, and affectionate. It is optimistic and very public. Your friends think it is great, and you sense that you and this person will help each other succeed in the future. But, sometimes you search for something deeper and more nuanced in this relationship, and it simply isn\u2019t there. So, enter Lover 2. Card Three- Lover 2 The Hermit- This person doesn\u2019t care at all about appearances, and couldn\u2019t be paid to have their picture on your social media page. They are introspective, meditative, other-worldly, and wise. They spend most of their time at home and love quiet and seclusion. They are a great lover, sensitive and subtle. They don\u2019t care about financial success and really just want to wander wherever their soul leads them. You find deep peace in their presence. Card Four- Unknown person The World- Hold tight, because what if it\u2019s neither of the first two lovers who is your true soul mate? This card indicates that someone you haven\u2019t yet met has more of what you really want than either of the first two. It pays to keep this in mind and stay open to what the Universe might be sending your way. Let\u2019s look deeper. Really study, think about, and feel each card for a while. What is each card saying to you about yourself, Lover…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5957758,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[33274],"tags":[34249,35277,74,35263],"cp_author":[33629],"class_list":["post-5957605","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-relationships","tag-love-and-relationships","tag-love-triangles","tag-tarot","tag-tarot-spreads","cp_author-psychic-adrianna-ext-6535"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nCard Two- Lover 1<\/h4>\n
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