{"id":5948743,"date":"2018-05-17T00:00:31","date_gmt":"2018-05-17T07:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/?p=5948743"},"modified":"2018-05-09T15:06:28","modified_gmt":"2018-05-09T22:06:28","slug":"psychic-qa-possessive-controlling-boyfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/psychic-qa-possessive-controlling-boyfriend.html","title":{"rendered":"Psychic Q&A: Her Possessive, Controlling Boyfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"

Her Controlling Boyfriend Doesn\u2019t Honor Her<\/h4>\n

If you have a question you\u2019d like answered, email it to <\/b>QandA@californiapsychics.com<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Dear Kallista, <\/i><\/p>\n

I have been in a relationship going on five years, and six months in, he became a possessive and controlling boyfriend. We\u2019ve actually known each other since childhood and in the last 20 years, we\u2019ve run into each other about five or six times. We were so happy to see each other every time. Then in 2013, we met again and quickly fell in love. Things turned violent after he accused me of hiding things from him and lying to him. But I think he is lying and hiding something from me. I believe he is cheating on me, although he would never admit it.<\/i><\/p>\n

He always starts a fight with me and then he leaves. This time, I found out he\u2019s been talking to a lot of random people online. And, he\u2019s not helping out at home other than putting food on the table. I pay the bills and I confronted him on the fact that he doesn\u2019t help much and that I think he\u2019s cheating. He never did say or do anything to make me feel better about my suspicions. Why is he putting me through this? I am a sad, sad person right now and I don\u2019t want to feel like this. I feel like I have no life and I have no friends because he wouldn\u2019t let me have any. Kallista, I don\u2019t have anyone to talk to.<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n

J.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Psychic Kallista ext. 9623<\/b><\/a> responds:<\/p>\n

Dear J.,<\/p>\n

Thank you for writing to me. You are deeply stressed by your controlling boyfriend. You are very sad, yes, but you are also angry because you know you deserve so much better than this. I know this isn\u2019t easy to hear, but your reading shows that if you choose to stay with him, there\u2019s nothing ahead for you but more abuse, and it will get worse the longer you remain with him. He will not change.<\/p>\n

While your controlling boyfriend is not in love with any other woman, I\u2019m sorry to say that he is indeed being unfaithful to you. You are quite right; he will never admit it. He has a very bad temper, and his violent side can erupt without warning. Please keep this number available for your protection: National Domestic Violence Hotline (800) 799-SAFE (7233). He is taking advantage of you in every way, including financially. He has isolated you, all for the purpose of having greater power over you. You feel you don\u2019t have anyone to turn to, but helpers will come. There is a mother figure showing up in your reading; she will assist you. You have only to reach out.<\/p>\n

You asked why your controlling boyfriend is putting you through this. He feels that crushing you down raises him up and he thinks he \u201cowns\u201d you. He believes that after every fight he can turn around and put on a nice front, even acting apologetic so you’ll do what he wants. But you have seen through him, and you are stronger than he is, J. You are hurting, but I see you will quietly escape this miserable man, and soon. If he finds out where you go, he may try to badger you into returning, but you won\u2019t give in. Your happiness and well-being will be restored once you leave him. It will take some time, but you will fall in love again\u2014this time with a man who will honor you and love you always.<\/p>\n

May you be ever blessed,<\/p>\n

Kallista<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Do you have a question for Psychic Kallista? Send it to QandA@californiapsychics.com<\/b><\/a> and it could be featured in a future Psychic Q&A!<\/p>\n

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