Are you hurting from the relationship that just ended abruptly with no explanation? Were you put aside for another lover and don\u2019t know why? Are you trying to understand why you got laid-off from your job without a warning? Perhaps you\u2019re missing someone you never got a chance to say goodbye to? What you need is closure, and most of us are looking for closure with respect to something hurtful, abrupt, confusing or tragic. Closure is a gift. How do you get the gift of closure? You give it to yourself!<\/p>\n
Having a hard time letting go of your feelings? Speak to a <\/i><\/b>life path psychic<\/i><\/b><\/a> and find out what changes may come your way if you do. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n Things don\u2019t always turn out the way you want them to, and sometimes the things you never thought would change on you. When this kind of change happens, it can leave you feeling cold, lonely, and wanting answers. Maybe you just want to feel like you have a say, if not the last word.<\/p>\n What Trips You Up <\/b><\/p>\n Even if some of the things you seek closure on weren\u2019t good for you\u2014the job that was going nowhere, the relationship full of problems\u2014sometimes you simply can\u2019t get over them because they didn\u2019t happen the way you would want or expect. It\u2019s never easy to just accept change, especially when it blindsides you or you don\u2019t get to defend your position, but why is it so hard to give yourself the gift of closure?<\/p>\n The Brick Wall Analogy <\/b><\/p>\n If you are walking down the street and come upon a brick wall, what can you do? Can you stand there and wait for someone to move it? Will you want to know why they put it there in the first place? Should you wait for them so you can tell them how stupid they are? Or, can you work your way over or around the wall, so you can get to where you\u2019re going?<\/p>\n Perhaps It Saves You Just because something happens in a way other than what you envision, that doesn\u2019t mean it’s already over and done. You still have options and choices and can try again in a different way, or at a later time. Another way to look at this situation is to think that perhaps the universe is saving you from something worse\u2014the consequences of what you want could lead you down a bad path.<\/p>\n Need vs. Want <\/b><\/p>\n Do you need closure in order to move on or survive? \u00a0No, you don\u2019t need it; you just want it. The truth is that you can\u2019t look to others to give you closure; the only real gift of closure is the one you give yourself. Wanting closure but not getting it is like being in a jail cell. You can\u2019t go anywhere. But when you realize that you’ve had the keys to your cell all along, you can set yourself free and move forward and seek the next chapter.<\/p>\n Speaking of chapters, think of how boring a book would be if it only had one chapter that you kept reading over and over again, and worse, what if you kept reading that chapter hoping that the next time it would have a different outcome. \u00a0It\u2019s time to turn the page to a new chapter of your life! However, as long as your closure depends on speaking to or seeing someone else, you\u2019ll remain right where you are.<\/p>\n How to Give Yourself the Gift of Closure<\/strong><\/p>\n 1. Take Time to Grieve<\/b> 2. Honor What Was Once There<\/b> 3. Don\u2019t Try to Fix It<\/b> 4. Plan Your Next Move<\/b> Want to build a better future? A life path reading<\/a> with one of our talented life path psychics can tell you where you\u2019re headed. A life path psychic<\/a> can help you find what you love so you can love what you do. And if you don\u2019t like where you\u2019re headed, your life path psychic can steer you down a better path.<\/p>\n Learn more about our psychics from real testimonials<\/a>\u00a0and read through our Destiny & Life Path Blog<\/a>. For more insight about your destiny & your astrological chart, get your free birth chart report<\/a>\u00a0today. <\/span><\/p>\n About California Psychics<\/strong> Are you looking for closure? You may be waiting for someone to give it to you, but the gift of closure is a gift you, and only you, can give to yourself. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6533,"featured_media":5946351,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[40],"tags":[33626,33625],"cp_author":[31217],"class_list":["post-5946347","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mind-body-spirit","tag-get-closure","tag-how-to-get-closure","cp_author-lj-innes"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n\n
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\nWhether it\u2019s a person you lose through death, a relationship that’s over or even a lost job, no one is denying that there is a void where none was before. In fact, this process is a necessary step in healing, but it becomes unhealthy if you stay in that place too long. Let go.<\/p>\n
\nGive your situation a little \u201cfuneral\u201d to put it to rest. Write down the name of your lover or your boss (or whatever or whoever let you go) on a piece of paper and have a burning ceremony. \u00a0Wish them well, thank them for the lesson\/the journey and announce that you are ready for the next phase of your life. Burning that paper will give you a sense of closure to the subject. However, burning a paper with someone\u2019s name on it while saying, \u201cBurn in hell,\u201d is not closure\u2014it\u2019s just mean.<\/p>\n
\nIf someone can\u2019t\/won\u2019t give you closure, you may feel that putting all the blame on yourself allows you to fix the situation. However, there\u2019s nothing to fix. As postmalesyndrome.com put it, \u201c\u2026being a \u2018closure hunter\u2019 and humiliation go hand-in-hand.\u201d<\/p>\n
\nYour next move should be one that is only limited by your own belief in yourself. Trust that whatever has left your life wasn\u2019t meant to last forever. Tell yourself that you\u2019re ready to start that new chapter.<\/p>\n
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