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It\u2019s All About Him<\/h4>\n

How do you define a really great sexual experience? Is it between two people who have an emotional and physical connection? Or is it uninhibited and a little bit dangerous? Is it shared by people who are equally interested in each other\u2019s pleasure? However you define great sex, you probably know what bad, unfulfilling sex feels like. Often that\u2019s because you\u2019re with a guy who\u2019s a selfish lover. Wondering just how selfish he is? Check out these nine behaviors and see how many apply to him.<\/p>\n

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1. He Always Expects You to Initiate<\/strong>
\nHe may say it\u2019s because he never knows when you\u2019re in the mood, but a good partner would be able to recognize the signs or know just what to do to get you in the mood. Part of being a selfish lover is being a lazy lover who never initiates sex.<\/p>\n

2. You’re on Call<\/strong>
\nA Man is a selfish lover if he expects you to be on call, sexually. This means that he expects you to be ready for sex whenever he wants it. And if you don\u2019t want it too, he tries to make you feel guilty about it.<\/p>\n

3. He Only Likes One Position<\/strong>
\nIf you\u2019re with a guy who\u2019s only interested in one sexual position, his favorite, you are with a man who is selfish in bed. Sure, certain positions work better for some than others, but he should be interested in the positions you like, too.<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s Only Nice When He Wants Some<\/strong>
\nHave you ever been with a guy who acts like a total jerk, but somehow becomes a sweetheart when he wants sex? That\u2019s pretty manipulative and it definitely means he\u2019s a selfish lover. Relationships take work, but if he only puts in the effort when he wants sex, you need to move on.<\/p>\n

5. He\u2019s Inpatient When Your Body Doesn\u2019t React as Expected<\/strong>
\nHumans aren\u2019t robots and that means your body won\u2019t work the same all the time. When it comes to sex, your body may not always respond the same way, and that\u2019s totally fine, except to a selfish lover. If your body isn\u2019t doing what he thinks it should, he\u2019ll respond with a bad attitude.<\/p>\n

6. He Likes to Take Shortcuts<\/strong>
\nThere are many different ways to be pleased in bed, and it\u2019s fun to incorporate new tricks and toys to spice things up. But if your partner is looking to use whatever hurries you along, he\u2019s a selfish lover.<\/p>\n

7. He Doesn\u2019t Care About Your Orgasm<\/strong>
\nIf he\u2019s using your body as a means to an end\u2014his end\u2014he\u2019s a selfish lover. If he rolls over and falls asleep after his orgasm, without making sure you\u2019ve had one too, you\u2019ve guessed it, he\u2019s a selfish lover.<\/p>\n

8. He Likes to Put on a Show for Himself<\/strong>
\nHave you ever been with a man who spends more time staring at his reflection in a mirror than looking into your eyes? Yup, he\u2019s a selfish lover because he cares more about how he looks than how you feel.<\/p>\n

9. It\u2019s All Physical and Not Emotional<\/strong>
\nThe physical part of sex is easy\u2014a selfish lover knows which parts go where. The emotional part is what\u2019s challenging. If you\u2019re looking for a purely physical relationship, then you have nothing to worry about. However, if you want that emotional connection during sex with your partner, and he\u2019s not giving it to you, he\u2019s selfish.<\/p>\n

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