{"id":5928489,"date":"2014-09-30T00:00:39","date_gmt":"2014-09-30T07:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5928489"},"modified":"2014-09-16T13:58:28","modified_gmt":"2014-09-16T20:58:28","slug":"problem-perfectionism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/mind-body-spirit\/problem-perfectionism.html","title":{"rendered":"The Problem With Perfectionism"},"content":{"rendered":"

Perfectionism: Perfect is Impossible<\/h4>\n

You, your relationships, your career and your life are like works of art, and of course you want them to be perfect! That\u2019s great, but you need to remind yourself that life is a “work in progress.”<\/strong><\/a> Even if you get what you think is the perfect job or lover, they will never be perfect, because nothing really is, even if it feels that way. Feel free to bask in a perfect feeling, but realize that life is like a beautiful garden and it requires continued cultivating and nurturing.<\/p>\n

Do you have a perfect future to look forward to? Get a life path reading and find out. Click here to get started!<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

Perfection is Futile<\/strong><\/p>\n

One of the world\u2019s greatest artists, Leonardo da Vinci, said, \u201cArt is never finished; only abandoned.\u201d This means that there is a moment when every artist has to declare their work complete (not perfect) and walk away from it. It’s not about abandonment. Rather, it’s about letting something stand on its own. There is always something to refine or update\u2014there is always something that could be better\u2014but thinking that way can drive you crazy. When it comes to something your want in your life<\/strong><\/a>, get as close to it as you can, be happy with how far you’ve come and then share your accomplishment with others. After, move on to something else that’s fulfilling.<\/p>\n

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Da Vinci realized what must be understood to succeed in all areas of life, not just art: Strive for the ideal (in love, career, etc.), but don’t expect perfection. Expecting perfection is futile. There will be many perfect moments or elements, but overall perfection is unrealistic.<\/p>\n

Get rid of your perfectionist mindset! Psychic Scarlet ext. 5314 can help you be more realistic.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

The Perfect Job<\/strong><\/p>\n

Are you looking for that perfect job<\/strong><\/a>? First, what would that look like exactly? Is it what you would have considered perfect 10 years ago\u2014or 10 years from now? Probably not. If you\u2019re sitting at your desk right now wanting something more fulfilling or hoping for something better, consider that the best place to start creating a “perfect” job is by making the one you have better.<\/p>\n

If that sounds silly or impossible, it\u2019s good to recognize that what you have is actually what you wanted at one point. See, you already succeeded at getting the “perfect” job! But over time you became unsatisfied. But you don’t have to abandon your current job to find a “perfect” job. You can make the job you have the one you want again. You just need to cultivate and nurture it like you first did. But do it with the understanding that it will never be perfect. An imperfect job can still be a great job!<\/p>\n

Psychic Logan ext. 5089 knows how to make your job more enjoyable. Call her for career improvement tips!<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

The Perfect Mate<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even the best relationships don’t consist of two perfect people. You and your partner are always changing and growing, and that means you can and will let each other down on occasion. Even if your partner falls short of your expectations, and you fall short of theirs, you can still have a lot of fun. But before the fun starts again, you need to be able to forgive each other so you can grow as a couple.\u00a0Forgiveness makes you a better person (not a perfect person).\u00a0Mutual acceptance in a relationship also creates a strong foundation for life-long love. That’s a real achievement, and it makes your relationship better.<\/p>\n

The Perfect You<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re a perfectionist, it’s difficult to love and accept yourself just the way you are. Do you think you could be thinner, prettier, funnier or sexier? Are you angry at yourself for not being these things? Try forgiving and accepting yourself for being human instead. If you can’t, how do you expect to be able to forgive and accept others? Loving others starts with loving yourself!<\/p>\n

Learn to love yourself for who you are at this exact moment. Psychic Thomasina ext. 6285 can help you be kinder to yourself.<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

There is no such thing as perfection, whether it’s a job, a mate or a you. Instead of striving for an unattainable goal, take the opportunities when you or a loved one fall short of expectations to practice acceptance. That’s actually the perfect opportunity to forgive more and love more. And remember, perfectionism is problematic because it is impossible to achieve.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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