{"id":5915594,"date":"2013-08-29T00:00:50","date_gmt":"2013-08-29T07:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5915594"},"modified":"2014-01-31T08:18:14","modified_gmt":"2014-01-31T16:18:14","slug":"real-reason-give-too-much","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/mind-body-spirit\/real-reason-give-too-much.html","title":{"rendered":"The Real Reason You Give Too Much"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00a0Hint: It\u2019s Not Always the Spirit of Generosity<\/h4>\n

From August 27 to October 13, Mars is in Leo. An excessively generous influence, this can lead to overindulgences all around. However, if you\u2019re the type who regularly finds that they give too much without receiving in return, there\u2019s an alternative, non-astrological explanation<\/strong><\/a>. Actually, there’s a handful of them.<\/p>\n

Here are some of the real reasons you give too much and what you can to do change that behavior!<\/p>\n

You Need to Be Needed<\/strong><\/p>\n

A healthy dose of generosity<\/strong><\/a> will never make you feel badly. If you often find yourself feeling slighted, consider your motivations. Are you trying to make that person realize they need or want you? Going overboard on a consistent basis (especially to your own detriment) is usually a sign that you don\u2019t feel appreciated.<\/p>\n

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Bring more love and harmony into your life.<\/a>\u00a0Get a love\/relationship reading from Psychic Lucrecia ext. 9326.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You Don\u2019t Know Your Own Value<\/strong><\/p>\n

Low self-esteem often leads to foolish generosity, if such a term can be applied. How to define foolish generosity: giving more than you can afford to (financially, emotionally, etc.), so as to (probably subconsciously) prove your own worth. If you ever find yourself thinking \u201cI just want so and so to like me,\u201d or \u201cI just want to make a good impression,\u201d when overextending yourself, you\u2019re not valuing yourself and your inherent worth sufficiently.<\/p>\n

Discuss positive self-talk<\/a>\u00a0with Psychic Amanda ext. 5605.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You Want to Craft a Grand Narrative<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ah, the power of the story. Who doesn\u2019t love being able to share a great one? But if you\u2019re more concerned with how you\u2019re perceived (what other people think) than you are with who you are at your core and how you treat other people, you\u2019re not giving too much out of self-sacrifice, or being a \u201cgood person.\u201d No. You\u2019re telling tall tales and you need to check yourself. Your identity<\/strong><\/a> is not in how you\u2019re perceived, but in who you are.<\/p>\n

“Partnership and friendship are the keys used to unlock the door to intimacy and love.” \u2013\u00a0Psychic Giovanna ext. 5214<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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