{"id":5904179,"date":"2013-01-20T00:00:23","date_gmt":"2013-01-20T08:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5904179"},"modified":"2016-05-03T16:24:47","modified_gmt":"2016-05-03T23:24:47","slug":"sex-qa-if-youre-older-are-you-less-sexual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/sex-qa-if-youre-older-are-you-less-sexual.html","title":{"rendered":"Sex Q&A: If You’re Older, Are You Less Sexual?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Just because a woman is older, doesn’t mean she can’t be sexual. Roles change, so do relationships and so does sex. Sexually, she can and should be as active as she wants.<\/p>\n

Should Older Women be Less Sexual?<\/h4>\n

Maryanne from Perth, Australia asks:<\/p>\n

I just wanted to ask you why you think older women should be crones<\/strong><\/a> and holy women??? We also have a libido and a need to enjoy it. What in the world makes you think we are not as sexually attractive or as appealing as \u00a0younger women? Are you saying that all younger women are beautiful?? Also I have seen many younger women get treated like dirt and their age doesn’t change the way a man values them, nor does their breeding capacity. You must be aware that older women were younger once and they remember how men treated them when they were younger. Men are not just animals wanting to breed, or so low and insecure or stupid, that they would think that an inexperienced, younger women could possibly take the place of a sexually active, very experienced, beautiful and intelligent older woman<\/strong><\/a>, who is not just good in bed but also interesting conversation.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Liam’s<\/a><\/strong> Response:<\/strong><\/p>\n

I find your hostility interesting. Let me make clear that my observation regarding the general male tendency to choose sex partners based on physical perceptions of youth and fertility isn’t an opinion. It is a biological and statistical reality. Long years of study have shown time and again that though men will pair bond with women of their own age group when they are young, as they age they will seek progressively younger women as mates. The preference is illustrated again and again. It is a tenant of evolutionary psychology, and a biological standard. Perceptions of youth and fertility far outweigh any romanticized notions of ‘higher’ intellectual ability or good dinner conversation. Let\u2019s be realistic.<\/p>\n

Given the choice, very few men are going to pick even the wittiest and most successful older woman over a bikini-clad co-ed no matter how dim-witted. Now, I know it’s not polite to say these things. It’s not politically correct. But this is nature we\u2019re talking about and there\u2019s a whole lot about nature that isn\u2019t very nice. It’s hideous that little children die of disease every day and we big-brained apes spend so much of our time finding new and better ways of decimating each other in our endless tribal pissing contests. But these things are the facts of our nature and that is our reality. The fact that males prefer progressively younger\u00a0bed-mates\u00a0as they age actually seems rather meager by way of comparison. At least to me.<\/p>\n

What I find really interesting in all this is your assumption that the archetype of the crone is one devoid of sexuality. I think you\u2019re bringing your own narrow, culturally-biased view of older women into the picture as that is never an opinion I expressed. I have never once suggested that older women should give up on sexuality or that older women are not beautiful or sensual or even downright sexy. The standard of the mature femme fatale<\/strong><\/a> is well documented in art and culture. Indeed, the sophisticated seductress often lies at the dark and dangerous heart of the crone. Her realm is a perilous place and her archetype the most sexual of all. For she is Death itself of which the momentary ego-obliteration of orgasm is but a shadow.<\/p>\n

Now, she may be dark and she may be dangerous but what this sultry lady is not is a fool. Nor is she a woman-child trying desperately to cling to her youth. An elder (a crone) knows nature’s reality. And she knows how to let go of one station in favor of another. Roles change, so do relationships and so does sex. A crone is self-contained. She knows her path is one of liberation\u2014from social value placement, from male objectification, from game playing and maidenly intrigues. Sexually, she can and should be as active as she wants. But wisdom must prevail in this, not foolish wishes. We live in a culture where men of 60 want to be budding rock stars and women constantly yearn for the days of proms and pep rallies. Personally, I think we should all try growing up a bit.<\/p>\n

Liam<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Do you have a question for Liam? <\/strong>Ask Liam your question now.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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