{"id":5901726,"date":"2012-12-13T00:00:46","date_gmt":"2012-12-13T08:00:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5901726"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:18:54","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:18:54","slug":"proposal-season-will-he-ask","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/proposal-season-will-he-ask.html","title":{"rendered":"Proposal Season: Will He Ask?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Get Yourself Engaged!<\/h4>\n

Taking matters into your own hands may be necessary in your relationship if you feel you’ve reached a plateau<\/strong><\/a>. There\u2019s a delicate balance to this though, so let\u2019s look at some proper techniques!<\/p>\n

Paving the Way<\/strong><\/p>\n

Before anything else, you must first lay the foundation for your approach. Broaching the engagement topic<\/a><\/strong> can be awkward and potentially backfire if it\u2019s coming completely from left field. Try the backdoor approach instead. Mention another couple\u2019s engagement, bring up some potential, future couple plans, etc. The goal is to get him thinking about the topic, and of you in his future. Wondering if he will ever pop the question? Psychic Anasela ext. 5154 knows if there are wedding bells in your future.<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

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Marriage Views, Check<\/strong><\/p>\n

You had better get his opinion on marriage at the outset. There\u2019s no need to waste your time with someone who never intends to get married, or has such a negative view of it that it would take a monumental amount of time and energy to crack away at his pessimistic beliefs.<\/p>\n

Talk Over His Fears<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whatever his views on marriage, address any issues. Perhaps he thinks he\u2019ll lose his identity and freedom, or that you\u2019ll eventually become bored and unhappy with one another. If you can get him to talk about his views, you\u2019ll have the opportunity to clear up his negative thoughts and set him on the right path\u2014to the altar with you.<\/p>\n

Meeting His Needs<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget the dynamic of your relationship\u2014the whole reason for your current wedding-bell contemplation! In every partnership, each person meets the needs of the other. Support him, encourage him, let him feel in control too (but not like you\u2019re trying to manipulate his feelings). Remind him through your actions why you two work so well together and belong with one another.<\/p>\n

Family Discretion<\/strong><\/p>\n

Make sure your family doesn’t sabotage all of your strategic efforts. While they love you and want what\u2019s best for you, their methods can easily undo all you’ve striven for. Don\u2019t allow them to tease or pressure your guy about taking the plunge. At best he\u2019ll think you don\u2019t respect him enough to protect him from your family\u2019s rude behavior, and at worst he\u2019ll think you put them up to it!<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Beat the Dead Horse<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’ve done all of the above, give him time to soak it all in. He\u2019ll work through his feelings about you and your future and be confident in his decision, instead of resentful or freaked out about your inability to give him room to come to his own conclusions and make his own choices. I<\/strong>s your partner pushing you towards marriage but you’d rather just live together? Psychic Scarlet ext. 5314 has the tools to help you communicate your feelings to your partner.\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

Prepare for the Worst: the Breakup<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sometimes you need to be willing to break things off. It\u2019s a sad fact that often a man won\u2019t appreciate the woman he\u2019s with until he thinks he\u2019s lost her. If all of the above has gotten you nowhere, see how he feels without you in his life. If you’ve been good to him and truly love him, he\u2019ll feel the gaping hole in his life you’ve left behind. While it\u2019s definitely a risk, if he\u2019s not committing<\/strong><\/a>, what have you really lost?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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