
{"id":5900850,"date":"2012-11-24T00:00:43","date_gmt":"2012-11-24T08:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5900850"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:19:08","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:19:08","slug":"3-things-women-dont-want-you-to-fix","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/3-things-women-dont-want-you-to-fix.html","title":{"rendered":"3 Things Women Don\u2019t Want You To Fix"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re a man. Your woman is upset\/mad\/sad\/hurt. You want to make her feel better. However, everything you do or say to fix the problem only seems to make it worse. Why? Because sometimes, most of the time, in fact, your woman isn\u2019t asking you to tackle her problems. She\u2019s asking for an ear, or a shoulder. The last thing she wants is to be told what to do!<\/p>\n<h4>A Guy\u2019s Guide to Supportive Partnership<\/h4>\n<p>If this situation sounds familiar, here are three situations women don\u2019t want you to fix\u2026 and what they want you to do instead! <a title=\"Ask a psychic today!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/selectapsychic\/?utm_source=blog-articles-cta&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles\" target=\"_blank\">Ask a psychic<\/a> about your situation today!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Her hesitation about asking for a <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/red-responds-how-you-can-get-a-raise.html\">raise\/promotion\/what she wants at work<\/a>:<\/strong>\u00a0Sure, you\u2019ve been hearing her complain about her job situation for some time. But rather than offering her your favorite strategies in the form of \u201cwhy don\u2019t you just do x, y or z,\u201d try taking the process out of the equation. Instead, praise her strengths. Tell her all the reasons she deserves what she wants. The boost she\u2019ll get from knowing you see her good qualities on the job will go a lot further in <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/10-tips-for-self-confidence.html\"><strong>bolstering her confidence<\/strong><\/a> (what she needs in order to ask for what she wants), than all the tips for how you\u2019ve done the same thing 30 times already.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Her relationship with her parents:\u00a0<\/strong>Every family has their issues. Your woman is no different with hers. And while she may have been spouting about her difficulties with her mother since your third date, the last thing she wants to hear is your thoughts on what she can do differently to please the people who are driving her crazy. Just nod and smile. Tell her you understand. Ask if there\u2019s anything you can do. Odds are, there isn&#8217;t. She just wants to vent and you happen to be her nearest sounding board.\u00a0<em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=117292&amp;utm_source=blog-articles&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles&amp;utm_campaign=cta-psychic-hern-ext-5239\">Feeling rejected by your partner? Psychic Hern ext. 5239 can tell you what&#8217;s going on.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Her body:\u00a0<\/strong>Whether she\u2019s too fat, too skinny or just right, your lady doesn\u2019t want your thoughts on what she eats\u2026 even if you\u2019re a fitness pro (unless you\u2019re on a health regimen together and it goes both ways). So if you\u2019re caught in an endless cycle of \u201cDo I look fat?\u201d or \u201cShould I get implants?\u201d questions. the best thing to do, truly, is to tell her you love her just the way she is. Then, grab her and plant one on her to hammer the point home. She\u2019s desirable and you desire her. That\u2019s all you need to convey, even if she keeps complaining.\u00a0<em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=117359&amp;utm_source=blog-articles&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles&amp;utm_campaign=cta-psychic-lucy-ext-5353\">Psychic Lucy ext. 5353 has the tools you need to take your romance to the next level!<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re a man. Your woman is upset\/mad\/sad\/hurt. You want to make her feel better. 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