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Unpredictability.<\/strong> Whatever routine you may have fallen into, <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/04\/7-ways-to-tell-your-partner-what-you-want-in-bed.html\"><strong>surprise your partner with the unexpected<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Ace the Attitude.<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/13-ways-to-feed-your-lover.html\"><strong>Appreciating yourself and your lover<\/strong><\/a> opens you up to all sorts of new adventures.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. The Little Things.<\/strong> Throughout the day, send a text, an email, or some little message that says you&#8217;re thinking of your partner in a sexy way.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Prioritize.<\/strong> You\u2019ve got to put in time and effort into revving up your sexual side. Get personalized advice, <a title=\"Contact a psychic today!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/selectapsychic\/?utm_source=blog-articles-cta&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles\" target=\"_blank\">contact a psychic today<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Study Time.<\/strong> Figure out what bedroom activities really please you and your partner.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Location, Location, Location.<\/strong> Changing up the places you get freaky adds a playful element to the sex game.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Work it Out.<\/strong> Embracing and loving your body exudes all sort of confidence in and out of the bedroom.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Flirty McPherson.<\/strong> Flirting is the best type of foreplay, and the build-up will only make things hotter when you get each other alone.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9. Something New.<\/strong> Reinventing a part of yourself is a great way to shake up any sexual stagnant energy\u2014new clothes, haircut, makeup\u2014it\u2019s all good!<\/p>\n<p><strong>10. Fantasies R Us.<\/strong> Try out those little sexy fantasies you both have been ignoring.<\/p>\n<p><strong>11. Honesty.<\/strong> Let your partner know what they\u2019re doing, right and wrong. It\u2019s your fault if you don\u2019t let them know!<\/p>\n<p><strong>12. Position Exchange.<\/strong> Just because you\u2019ve found what works doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t still try new things.<\/p>\n<p><strong>13. You Tease!<\/strong> Building up to the actual act heightens sexual pleasure, so don\u2019t hesitate to make him whimper a little bit!<\/p>\n<p><strong>14. Highs and Lows.<\/strong> No one can be sexually on all of the time, so accept the ebb and flow of things and don\u2019t let a lackluster day spoil the next!<\/p>\n<p><strong>15. Quality Time Outside the Bedroom.<\/strong> Bonding outside of sex will bring an additional layer of intimacy to your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>16. Let Go.<\/strong> Inhibitions only get in the way of your sexual pleasure.<\/p>\n<p><strong>17. Comparison Catastrophe.<\/strong> Enjoy the unique magic you two have together instead of constantly comparing past lovers and experiences.<\/p>\n<p><strong>18. Absence Makes The Heart&#8230;<\/strong> Spending every waking moment together can easily make things stagnant and unhealthy!<\/p>\n<p><strong>19. Truth or Dare.<\/strong> Playful games always add a flirty element to the bedroom.<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;Explore your definition of sexy. Be sexy! Push out those thoughts of flaws and think irresistible.&#8221;\u00a0\u2013 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=117602&amp;utm_source=blog-articles&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles&amp;utm_campaign=quote-psychic-deejay-ext-5435\">Psychic Deejay ext. 5435<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><strong>20. Environmental Stimuli.<\/strong> Adding music, candles and so on can add an erotic oomph to any sexual experience.<\/p>\n<p><strong>21. Anti-Environmental Stimuli.<\/strong> On the flip side, eliminating outside distractions allows you both to focus and experience one another to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p><strong>22. Baggage in the Bedroom.<\/strong> Any unsettled issues between you two should always be addressed\u2014not dragged into your bed!<\/p>\n<p><strong>23. Tackle Turn-Offs.<\/strong> Make sure you and your lover feel like you can, tactfully, share any turn-offs you have regarding one another.<\/p>\n<p><strong>24. Trying Too Hard.<\/strong> Recognize when you may be forcing yourself to be sexy. Natural sexuality is so much more attractive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>25. Social Studies.<\/strong> Get out there to expose yourself to new energies and ideas which you can bring back to your lover.<\/p>\n<p><strong>26. No Power Plays.<\/strong> Using sex as a form of manipulation ends up in resentment and lack of respect.<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;Love with sex can send you both beyond the stars\u2026&#8221; \u2013 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=117603&amp;utm_source=blog-articles&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles&amp;utm_campaign=quote-psychic-alison-ext-9885\">Psychic Alison ext. 9885<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><strong>27. Seduce One Another.<\/strong> It\u2019ll remind you of what is was like to be in that wooing phase.<\/p>\n<p><strong>28. Power of The Kiss.<\/strong> No matter the time of day or circumstances, never forget how sexy a powerful kiss can be.<\/p>\n<p><strong>29. The Power of Now.<\/strong> Appreciate the moment with one another instead of bringing past and future pressures into the mix.<\/p>\n<p><strong>30. Be Silly Together.<\/strong> Laughter and engaging a childlike-essence opens each of you up to a playfulness that\u2019s necessary for keeping sexual energy alive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>31. The Power of Touch.<\/strong> Focusing on touch and sensation will add a heightened sexual element to every move you make.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This month, try these 31 ideas to help transform your love life.  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