{"id":5897992,"date":"2012-09-21T00:00:31","date_gmt":"2012-09-21T07:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5897992"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:46:54","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:46:54","slug":"is-your-lover-making-a-fool-of-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/is-your-lover-making-a-fool-of-you.html","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Lover Making a Fool of You?"},"content":{"rendered":"

It’s possible you’re being played a fool by your partner. Learn to tell what the signs are that they’re lying to you or they’re just not able to give you what you want or need.<\/p>\n

What’s Really Going On?<\/h4>\n

Being in love is such a joyous and soul-filling experience<\/strong><\/a> that we become like warriors protecting something sacred, seeing only victory. We convince ourselves of the other person’s innocence, believing what they tell us, hoping they are working towards getting a divorce, or really are<\/em> hanging out with the friends, or working, that they do truly want a future with us\u2014not just a friendship with benefits!<\/p>\n

After a few months, or years, of hearing the same excuses, or stories, we begin to really struggle with what’s really<\/em> going on. We have a hard time holding on to that optimistic hope that it will turn out the way we want it to. There are dark nights of the soul while we sit, alone, and can\u2019t sleep because we keep rehearsing what we will say to them \u201cnext time,\u201d or worrying about what they said to us. I know for myself that I can get pretty worked up thinking \u201cwhy don\u2019t you just tell me what\u2019s really going on?!\u201d Get personalized advice, contact a psychic today<\/a>!<\/p>\n

The truth is that sometimes<\/strong><\/a> they really are<\/em> struggling with baggage. Sometimes our soul mate finds us after<\/em> they have married someone else, or there really are obstacles to being together around work, kids, or family. Your lover may be dealing with things that really do keep them from being there for you. They may just need more time for spiritual growth, or maturity, to allow them to let go of their fear of getting hurt, or a fear of commitment, but, how can you tell?<\/p>\n

Here are some tools to figure out what’s going on in the relationship:<\/p>\n

1. Check your self-esteem.<\/strong> Are you accepting a \u201cless than\u201d condition because you lack a sense of self-worth? Make sure you understand that you deserve to be loved and respected!<\/p>\n

2. A healthy relationship is not a secret.<\/strong> Are there secrets about where they live, when they can talk, if they call when they say they will? Do they refuse to discuss why it\u2019s taking so long?<\/p>\n

3. Do you have a social life together, or do you always meet behind closed doors?<\/strong> How long have you been having to accept less than a full relationship, and are you being talked into that, or is\u00a0it your choice as well?<\/p>\n

4. Does their behavior suggest that they are \u201cnumb\u201d to your needs, or ignoring them?<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. Does their behavior seem like a lie?<\/strong> (Read the blog \u201cLearn the Body Language of Liars<\/strong><\/a>.\u201d) Do they avoid talking about the situation, or are they open to discussing how things are going?<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t waste your life going back and forth, believing them when you are with them, and doubting them the whole time you are away from your lover. Either get the clarity you need to plan your future, or ask for help to understand your choice of lover. You know your friends at California Psychics are always here to help you look into their deeper motivations if you need help.\u00a0So if you have your doubts<\/a><\/strong>, maybe this will help you to sort it out for yourself; however, there are no ways to prove<\/em> a lie like on TV and the movies except (to some degree) the lie detector, and even that can be fooled sometimes!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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