{"id":5894493,"date":"2012-07-07T00:00:12","date_gmt":"2012-07-07T07:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5894493"},"modified":"2012-08-09T11:09:22","modified_gmt":"2012-08-09T18:09:22","slug":"show-your-love-dont-text-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/show-your-love-dont-text-it.html","title":{"rendered":"Show Your Love, Don\u2019t Text It"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Communicating With a Loved One<\/h4>\n<p>Everyone has email. And, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/12\/the-facebook-dilemma.html\">most of us text, tweet, \u00a0and use Facebook<\/a><\/strong> on our phones. Beeps have become a part of how we communicate.\u00a0Beep beep &#8220;I want to c u 2nite.&#8221; Beep beep &#8220;r u free.&#8221; Beep beep &#8220;yes 888,&#8221; and so on. Do beeps make any of you<em>\u00a0<\/em>feel <em>really<\/em> warm and fuzzy inside? If so, maybe you are the exception. But I am sure that <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/08\/3-ways-to-boost-intimacy.html\">intimacy cannot grow<\/a><\/strong> through this kind of communication.<\/p>\n<p>Many times clients will call me and ask if he\u2019s\/she\u2019s &#8220;the one.&#8221; And I will ask, &#8220;When was the last time you <em>saw<\/em> them?&#8221; It doesn\u2019t take long before the client realizes through their guides that there is a difference between seeing their guy\/gal and getting beeps. And the difference is huge.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>In a new relationship, one can pretend that the beeps mean something for a while. But eventually, beeps will be recognized as an illusion of a relationship. And if this &#8220;relationship&#8221; doesn&#8217;t have face-to-face time, it begins to fade before it really has a chance to start. However, by not answering the beep, you force your potential mate to call you or see you if their true intent is to know you better. And if not, then you keep your power by being the one to not accept that empty form of communication. Then you can walk away with your power. If you &#8220;go along&#8221; with beeping each other, the feeling of emptiness and loneliness grows because the person never really forms an intimate bond with you.<\/p>\n<p>The next time you meet a person of interest and they either\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2012\/01\/first-date-ideas-by-sun-sign.html\">text you for a date<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>or\u00a0text\u00a0you to confirm the date, consider ignoring the text as a means of making them call you. Otherwise, you may find that beeping is the only way they communicate with you. If they really want to make a connection with you, they will call. Make them chase you and make calling you a habit for them.<\/p>\n<p>Texting isn&#8217;t all bad. It&#8217;s good for letting someone know you&#8217;re running late. It&#8217;s also okay to use when you&#8217;re in a solid relationship, but it should never be a primary form of communication. \u00a0It&#8217;s also good for sexting! But real intimacy comes from face to face contact and hearing each other&#8217;s voices. You need to maintain your connection in these ways if you want your relationship to last.<\/p>\n<p>After all, when was the last time you saw computers make love?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=116666&amp;utm_source=blog-articles&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles&amp;utm_campaign=link-psychic-lucy-ext-5353\"><strong>Lucy ext. 5353<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>Need help communicating?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and get the tools you need. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We are becoming a relationship bound world of beep beeps. Do any of you really feel warm and fuzzy inside from a beep sound? 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