{"id":5894154,"date":"2012-07-11T00:00:20","date_gmt":"2012-07-11T07:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5894154"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:48:15","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:48:15","slug":"7-ways-to-have-a-better-relationship-with-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/7-ways-to-have-a-better-relationship-with-yourself.html","title":{"rendered":"7 Ways to Have a Better Relationship With Yourself"},"content":{"rendered":"

Get Back in the Driver\u2019s Seat<\/h4>\n

Feeling blah,\u00a0unenthusiastic\u00a0or less than excited about your life? Are you just a passenger coasting in the slow lane while others lead the way? Let\u2019s get you back in the driver\u2019s seat and on the road to having an awesome life. Here are seven ways to have a better relationship with yourself<\/a><\/strong> (with some seemingly conflicting advice) that includes an added bonus.<\/p>\n

1. Be Faithful<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be faithful to a plan to have the best possible relationship with yourself<\/a><\/strong>. Commit to workouts, good nutrition, getting lots of rest, drinking lots of water and being organized\u2014everything that helps you look and feel your best.<\/p>\n

2. Cheat a Little<\/strong><\/p>\n

No one is perfect. Whether your indulgences are food or day off from your workout, be good to yourself and treat yourself once in a while. Sometimes being bad can be really good. Just remember to get back on track after your little momentary lapse in faithfulness.<\/p>\n

3. Be Nice<\/strong><\/p>\n

Take an extra moment to stop in front of that mirror and say something nice to yourself such as, “Damn I look good.” Pick out the nicest thing about your hair, body or outfit and make it your focal point.<\/p>\n

4. Be Naughty<\/strong><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a partner to be naughty, and what a release it can be. Pour yourself a glass of wine, light some candles and lounge in a relaxing spot with the latest romance novel or erotic thriller. Get lost in luscious imagination.<\/p>\n

“Keep your partner happy by being happy yourself.” –\u00a0Blythe ext. 5339<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n

5. Save for a Rainy Day<\/strong><\/p>\n

Be financially proactive and save for a rainy day, or a major purchase. Financial independence builds confidence and self-esteem. Plus you\u2019ll be prepared when an opportunity presents itself.<\/p>\n

6. Splurge a Little<\/strong><\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019ve managed to put a dollar or two aside for that rainy day, take a little bit of it and have your hair done, get a spa pedicure or buy that little black dress you\u2019ve always wanted. Whether it\u2019s for a special occasion or for no reason at all, you\u2019ve been working hard and you deserve a reward.<\/p>\n

7. Take a Class or Learn a Language<\/strong><\/p>\n

Expand your repertoire and take a class that will help your career or you personally. Take an exotic cooking class or learn a romance language. Mastering a new skill can bring you added income, put you on the path to self-employment or simply make you feel even more smart and savvy than you already are.<\/p>\n

“Whether you want a job, a house, a friend, a mate, lead with your strengths.” –\u00a0Psychic Reed ext. 5105<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Bonus:<\/strong><\/em> The bonuses of having a better relationship with yourself are actually unlimited. For example, take that new body and that new dress to Italy or Spain and sample tasty wines and local cuisine with a handsome stranger. Or use your newfound skills and confidence to land yourself that dream job\u2014such as a food critic or travel writer. The best bonus of all is that a savvy, independent woman has no limits in her life. She\u2019s self-confident and attracts admirers and good fortune like moths to a flame.<\/p>\n

Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

What’s ahead for your<\/em> relationships?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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