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It\u2019s Work, Not a Popularity Contest!<\/h4>\n

If you have a full-time office job, chances are you spend at least eight hours a day, five days a week with the same people. And if you\u2019ve ever had an office job, you know that it\u2019s easier to get through the day if you get along with your coworkers. We learned the following principles in kindergarten: play nice, share toys and don\u2019t eat sand. In the working world, those principles evolved into: be friendly, don\u2019t hoard office supplies and only eat the food you brought (Yes, even unlabeled food counts as not your food). So let\u2019s say we make a conscious effort to follow these workplace etiquette principles, but our coworkers still don\u2019t like us. What are we doing wrong?<\/p>\n

No One Likes Me!\u00a0Am I too Strong?<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

Psychic Colette ext. 5035<\/a><\/strong> gets a lot of calls about this very topic. The callers are upset because no one at work likes them no matter what they do, and they seem to be pushing everyone away, unbeknownst to the reason. According to Colette, \u201cWhat they don\u2019t realize is that they are strong women, and their strength illuminates weaknesses in others.\u201d<\/em> It doesn\u2019t matter what the strength is. If she\u2019s young, she makes her coworkers feel like dowdy old matrons. If she is attractive, she makes her coworkers feel like trolls. If she is successful, she makes her coworkers feel like they are a few steps away from the unemployment office. For her coworkers, her very presence is the equivalent of getting smacked in the face with their own weaknesses every time she walks into the room. Do you feel like a weakness is keeping you from success? Talk to Psychic Colette ext. 5035 and get the tools you need to succeed.<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Take This Advice!<\/strong><\/p>\n

What is the strong and successful woman to do? Dumb down her intelligence? Dress frumpy and gain 20 pounds or get herself demoted\u2014all in the hopes that her coworkers will be nice to her? No! This is work, not a popularity contest! Another lesson from kindergarten comes to mind: You can\u2019t make people be your friends. But according to Psychic Colette, you can feel less distressed about your lack of popularity if you implement her advice. She says, \u201cBe patient with those around you, send love, and shine by example.\u201d<\/em> It seems simple, but this really does work because it gives the distressed caller something to focus on. They will never be able to control how their coworkers feel about them, but Psychic Colette\u2019s advice shows them how to control their response to the negativity they are experiencing. Are you experiencing negativity at work? Call Psychic Colette ext. 5035, get to the bottom of it and learn how to neutralize it.<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

So what happens when these distressed callers follow Psychic Colette\u2019s<\/a><\/strong> advice? Good things. They call her back and tell her they feel physically lighter, emotionally better and empowered. Suddenly, they feel neutral about a place that used to bringthem pain. Also, they now feel compassionate towards people who used to upset them. Instead of feeling punished for being strong, these successful women can now focus all of their energy on their next professional goal, and they have Psychic Colette to thank for that.<\/p>\n

What can Psychic Colette do for you?<\/p>\n

Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Want to erase negativity in your life?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out how. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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