{"id":5889742,"date":"2012-04-29T00:00:37","date_gmt":"2012-04-29T07:00:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5889742"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:49:47","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:49:47","slug":"red-responds-save-your-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/red-responds-save-your-marriage.html","title":{"rendered":"Red Responds: Save Your Marriage"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Tell Him What You Want<\/h4>\n<p>Ashley S from\u00a0DC asks:<\/p>\n<p><em>I&#8217;ve been contemplating a separation from my husband, because I don&#8217;t feel my <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/07\/8-ways-to-nurture-romance.html\/\">romantic needs<\/a><\/strong> are being met. He&#8217;s a wonderful person with a fantastic job and outlook on life. Problem is I don&#8217;t feel taken care of by him. I want him to be a man, ravish me in the bedroom and be my protector outside the bedroom. Is there hope for us or someone better for me?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114437&amp;utm_source=blog_articles&amp;utm_medium=blog_articles&amp;utm_campaign=red-responds-psychic-red-ext-9226\">Psychic Red ext. 9226<\/a> Responds:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dear Ashley,<\/p>\n<p>It looks like you have a pretty strong foundation with your husband, but each of you has gotten caught up a bit with all the stuff of everyday life. While routine certainly can create a sense of security, it also can have a bit of a lack-luster impact on the more passionate aspects of a marriage.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Talk with your husband. The poor guy seems rather clueless as to how it is you&#8217;re feeling. He thinks he\u2019s being a good and solid husband. While he is often tired, he is also fairly content with the life the two of you have created, and believes you feel the same.<\/p>\n<p>Your husband is a logical man and has a passive thread that runs through his nature. So, he isn\u2019t going to strut around like a testosterone overloaded college guy. He isn\u2019t compelled or inclined to put on a show of strength because your feathers got ruffled. After all, he sees you as a capable, intelligent, independent woman. And it does his ego a bit of good when others are checking you out, and he believes you can handle both wanted and unwanted attentions. Let him know how you feel. While he may not puff out his chest at the drop of a feather, he will start paying closer attention to details of situations, and your reactions. By the way, your husband would most likely take a bullet for you without even pausing to think \u2013 but no one is actually pointing a gun at you or putting you in danger.<\/p>\n<p>As far as <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2012\/04\/speak-up-find-fulfillment-in-the-bedroom.html\">what goes on behind closed doors<\/a><\/strong>, it looks as if you\u2019d have better luck if you talked a little about what you&#8217;re going through, and demonstrated in detail what you desire. While it may take you being more aggressive initially, the man will step up. Heck, he\u2019ll loosen up and be open to trying new things!<\/p>\n<p>Give yourself, your husband and your marriage a chance before you start sincerely looking for greener pastures. While you will have very little trouble finding another man, men or mate if you should decide to end your marriage, you will also find that the good you already have in your life isn\u2019t going to be quite so easy to replace.<\/p>\n<p>Brightest Blessings,<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114437&amp;utm_source=blog_articles&amp;utm_medium=blog_articles&amp;utm_campaign=red-responds-psychic-red-ext-9226\">Red<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Do you have a question for Red? <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/red_responds.aspx\" target=\"_self\">Ask Red your question now.<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>Are you considering greener pastures?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic to find out if you&#8217;re seeing the real situation. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When every day life catches up with your marriage, the romantic flame may have be reduced to a tiny spark. 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