
{"id":5889628,"date":"2012-04-25T00:00:55","date_gmt":"2012-04-25T07:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5889628"},"modified":"2013-06-05T06:07:24","modified_gmt":"2013-06-05T13:07:24","slug":"dont-run-from-commitment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/destiny-life-path\/dont-run-from-commitment.html","title":{"rendered":"Do You Keep Running Away From Commitment?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes it\u2019s a very subtle process that we use to keep from \u201cfeeling\u201d too much. We can convince ourselves of almost anything, if the fear is great enough. Most of the time, it\u2019s a pretty subconscious decision, but you can start to <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2012\/01\/see-your-future-and-change-it.html\">see patterns<\/a><\/strong> and realize that there are times you feel yourself \u201cshutting down.\u201d My training in hypnosis taught me that our brains are miraculous\u2026 Truly, once we decide \u201csomething hurts,&#8221; we can and will avoid it, at all costs, until we <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2009\/06\/a-change-in-thinking.html\/\">break the old decisions<\/a><\/strong> to do so, in our heads.\u00a0<a title=\" Get personalized advice from a psychic!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/selectapsychic\/?utm_source=blog-articles-cta&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles\" target=\"_blank\">Get personalized advice from a psychic<\/a>!<\/p>\n<h4>Why are You Alone?<\/h4>\n<p>Here are some questions that might help you:<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>1. Does it seem that you hit a \u201cpoint\u201d where you start pulling back and you don\u2019t know why?<\/p>\n<p>2. Do you focus on the differences instead of the similarities?<\/p>\n<p>3. Do you find you \u201ccan\u2019t quite put your finger on\u201d why you want <em>out<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>4. After they\u2019re gone do you start to question your reasons?<\/p>\n<p>5. Does this same pattern happen again and again?<\/p>\n<p>6. Do you have trouble finding someone \u201cthat really excites you?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>7. Do you find things wrong with them from the first encounter?<\/p>\n<p>These are all questions that may apply here and there to most. If you answered yes to all of them, it\u2019s really time to get inside your own head and see what\u2019s going on. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/10\/change-your-life.html\/\">As a psychic<\/a><\/strong> with training in human behavior, I see that many of us have a false sense of who we are and what our motivations are. When working with my clients, I, as well as many of the psychics at\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/selectapsychic\/\">California Psychics<\/a><\/strong>, help get to the bottom of where you are at! If you&#8217;re confused, that\u2019s where I would start.<\/p>\n<p>Love is scary. It\u2019s being raw and vulnerable, it\u2019s letting someone see and know you, and being fearful that they won\u2019t like what they see is a big part of that. However, it also elevates you above the mundane, allows you to pursue a deeper understanding of spirit, of being connected to another. It allows us to feel so much more deeply the happiness and joys in this life. There is a richness to a spiritual and healthy love that is well worth facing your fears and standing open armed and strong.<\/p>\n<p>Many of us are wounded from childhoods that were either abusive or just did not nurture our\u00a0self-esteems. We are not sure we <em>can<\/em> do this, to be brave, and stand in vulnerability. Yet, if you realize that the other person standing with you is doing the exact same thing\u2026 it does become easier, and therein is the answer \u2013 find someone willing to be vulnerable with you as well.<\/p>\n<p>Once you have identified that you have some badly recorded \u201ctapes\u201d in your head, seek out counseling to help you understand them and \u201cre-write\u201d them into real guidelines and boundaries to find a healthy and spiritually connected lover. It\u2019s never too late to be happy!<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>Why are you running from commitment?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes it\u2019s a very subtle process that we use to keep from \u201cfeeling\u201d too much. 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