
{"id":5889159,"date":"2012-04-27T00:00:03","date_gmt":"2012-04-27T07:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5889159"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:49:52","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:49:52","slug":"what-makes-him-bitchy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/what-makes-him-bitchy.html","title":{"rendered":"What Makes Him Bitchy"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Getting a Handle on His Emotions<\/h4>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2012\/03\/be-a-slimmer-more-confident-woman-without-reading-skinny-bitch.html\">Bitchy behavior isn\u2019t just for the ladies<\/a><\/strong> it would seem! Snappy, cranky commentary can come from both sides of the gender fence, so let\u2019s take a look at some of the contenders for the \u201chow to make a guy grumpy\u201d award of the year.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nitpicking Neurosis<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/11\/when-nagging-crosses-the-line.html\">Consistently nagging over every little thing<\/a><\/strong> would be enough to drive anyone nuts. Since women tend to devote more attention to the smaller details, those who continuously comment on\u2014and attempt to improve their mates\u2014can aggravate their beaus in no time. Choosing your battles is always the best tactic, so carefully select issues truly worth fighting about, and let go of the others which simply aren\u2019t important enough to squabble about.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Neediness of the Needy<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When both partners are individually strong, with their own sense of independence, it goes a long way towards creating a healthy happy relationship. Leaning too much on your beau\u2014emotionally, financially or otherwise\u2014creates a needy cycle of behavior likely to incite resentment in your partner. If he feels that you constantly require special treatment, careful coddling, handholding and so on, don\u2019t be surprised if he gets snippy when you\u2019ve just asked him for another thing in a long list of requests for the day.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Holding All of the Sex Cards<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Withholding sex from your guy, whatever the reason, is one of the quickest ways to see the crankiest side of his personality. As men tend to be more sexually aggressive than women, not having sex as an outlet will definitely taint the quality of his moods. Of course, you have just as much of a right to have your needs met too; quite possibly, you won\u2019t feel inclined to respond sexually if you are unhappy. That said, you should be aware that withholding sex as a form of manipulation is apt to come with consequences that you might not want to deal with.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Master of the Mind Games<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes referred to as femininely wiles, many men have commented on women\u2019s ability to manipulate them, to a certain degree, in an effort to get what they want. While this may or may not be a fair assessment, there are women who utilize this approach in their relationships. If he catches on to these manipulations, don\u2019t expect him to be happy about it.<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;Love and relationships are kind of like jobs, we change constantly until we find that right one that sticks around for the long haul.&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0&#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114138&amp;utm_source=extra-content-psychics&amp;utm_medium=extra-content-psychics&amp;utm_campaign=lacy-quote\">Lacy ext. 5494<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Body Basics<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Everyone needs proper fuel and time to recharge, so if he is not eating or sleeping enough, this is the simplest explanation for his male bitchiness!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Breathing Room<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Part of a positive partnership is in giving the other person the breathing room necessary to do what they want. Whether it\u2019s time with the boys, watching sports games, or simply having time alone, giving him the respect and space to enjoy these moments and activities can easily <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/your-family-hates-your-boyfriend.html\">make the difference between a bitchy boyfriend and a beloved one<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;It&#8217;s not about making someone else happy or them making you happy. You have to be satisfied and happy with yourself and your own life &#8211; you have to feel whole. When you feel whole you will automatically put out the type of energy which will also attract a person that they themselves are whole. Thus, two wholes can come together and form a greater whole &#8211; this is far more powerful than two parts trying to make but a single whole.&#8221; &#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=115270&amp;utm_source=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_medium=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_campaign=hayden-quote\">Hayden ext. 5424<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>What&#8217;s ahead for you and <em>your<\/em>\u00a0relationships?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out how to find the answers you&#8217;re looking for. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bitchy behavior isn\u2019t just for the ladies it would seem! 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