{"id":5889111,"date":"2012-03-15T13:00:36","date_gmt":"2012-03-15T20:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5889111"},"modified":"2016-01-18T08:50:54","modified_gmt":"2016-01-18T16:50:54","slug":"relationship-myths-you-should-avoid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/relationship-myths-you-should-avoid.html","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Myths You Should Avoid"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Advice to Ignore When Starting a New Relationship!<\/h4>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/bad-relationships-help-you-survive.html\/\">When it comes to relationships<\/a><\/strong>, everybody&#8217;s a critic, and everybody wants to be extra helpful, too. But even more deadly can be the unspoken assumptions we may harbor about <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/10\/dreamcast-thrive-in-your-relationships.html\">what relationships are or are not supposed to be<\/a><\/strong>. In particular, there are a few particularly pernicious ones that are best avoided if you want your relationship to have a chance of getting off the ground&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/kozmedia.com\/dangerous-relationships-myths-to-avoid\/229426\/\" target=\"_blank\">Koz Media reports:<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>So many times, women are operating under false assumptions about relationships that cause us to feel sad, lonely, and disconnected from their man.\u00a0These dangerous relationship myths are so widespread, it\u2019s no wonder so many of us have suffered the sting of heartache.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Relationship Myth #1: Giving = Getting<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While it\u2019s true that every relationship is give and take, the truth is that men don\u2019t fall in love because you\u2019ve given them so much.\u00a0Men fall in love when they are able to give to a woman. They fall in love when you take care of yourself and share your emotional experiences with them.\u00a0Never give a man more than he\u2019s given you, including expressions of love and encouragement. Hint: Don\u2019t keep telling him you love him when he hasn\u2019t said it to you yet.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Relationship Myth #2: Exclusivity Leads to Commitment and Marriage<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is the most dangerous myth we women have come to believe.\u00a0Here\u2019s the shocking truth: What makes a man want to give up his freedom and single status for you has nothing to do with the fact that you\u2019ve given him all your time and emotional energy.\u00a0The moment a man smells that need and desperation that comes from having an unconscious agenda of how things \u201cshould be\u201d, his feelings of attraction for you will fade.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>What do you think \u2014 what relationship myths do you think are best avoided?<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;The only person you can change is yourself. Learn to accept others as they are or move on.&#8221; &#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114787&amp;utm_source=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_medium=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_campaign=rivers-quote\">Rivers ext. 5273<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<h4><em>&#8220;Relationships are hard. To say they aren&#8217;t is a lie, but the best things in life are the ones we have to work at constantly, and still enjoy.&#8221; &#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114138&amp;utm_source=extra-content-psychics&amp;utm_medium=extra-content-psychics&amp;utm_campaign=lacy-quote\">Lacy ext. 5494<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=112937&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY $1 per minute. Select your psychic advisor here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>Who is <em>your <\/em>true love?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are a few particularly pernicious relationship myths that are best avoided if you want your relationship to have a chance of getting off the 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