{"id":5888384,"date":"2012-03-23T00:00:51","date_gmt":"2012-03-23T07:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5888384"},"modified":"2022-03-08T15:22:59","modified_gmt":"2022-03-08T23:22:59","slug":"oh-shit-i-said-i-love-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/love-relationships\/oh-shit-i-said-i-love-you.html","title":{"rendered":"What to Do If You Said I Love You Too Soon"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You are in a relationship and you have contemplated proclaiming your love to that dream mate of yours and you drop the &#8220;L&#8221; word. It seemed like a great idea and action on your feelings but did you just take a spin of relationship roulette? Let&#8217;s investigate this a little more and see what the right path and proper recovery might be.<\/p>\n<h4>If You Said It too Soon, Here&#8217;s What to Do<\/h4>\n<p>Moonlight, candlelight, roses, and wine. Your head spins a little, you feel in love with love and life is beautiful as you take a slow breath and whisper, \u201cI love you, too.\u201d But before the words are completely off your lips, your hackles rise, your brain kicks into high gear, and your inner voice screams, \u201cWait! What\u2019s wrong with you?\u201d <a title=\"Ask a psychic today!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/selectapsychic\/?utm_source=blog-articles-cta&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ask a psychic<\/a> about your situation today!<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/quiz-are-you-in-love-or-lust.html\">You know you don\u2019t love them<\/a><\/strong>, too. The fact is, sometimes you wonder if you like them enough to spend another evening together. They&#8217;re charming, even great to look at. They&#8217;re funny, sociable, and always around. Maybe you begin to find they&#8217;re also needy, and a little selfish, and pushier than you like. They might <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2012\/02\/how-a-psychic-can-find-your-mr-right.html\">turn out to be Mr.\/Mrs. Right<\/a><\/strong>, but until you\u2019re sure, take control and un-ring that bell!<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Who doesn\u2019t get swept up in the heat and glitter of a romantic moment or the pleasure of a new relationship? When you figure out it was a moment, not a commitment, put on the brakes and level with the person. Do it in a quiet moment alone with them when you\u2019re not feeling anxious or guilty. Turn up the lights, forget about soft music, and for heaven sake, ditch the adult beverages, for now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t Throw Away a Good Thing<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re heart and soul tell you honesty is the only policy. Get into your own psyche before you decide what you want to say. If you think a clean break is the right thing to do, have at it. Apologize for saying those three little words too soon. Take ownership of the problem and don\u2019t topple their self-esteem.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, if you see potential in the relationship but need to slow it down, be honest about that, too. If you can talk with them about something so sensitive, that\u2019s a great omen. Explain that you\u2019re unsure. Explain that the pleasure of the moment made you feel close to him, but love is serious and you\u2019re not there yet.<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;If it&#8217;s really true-one day you will &#8220;just know&#8221; and it will feel different from all of the others.&#8221; \u2013 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=115117&amp;utm_source=blog-articles&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles&amp;utm_campaign=quote-psychic-maryanne-ext-9146\">Psychic Maryanne ext. 9146<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p>Two things can happen here. If they&#8217;re not mature enough to handle real feelings, they may react negatively and hit the road. But chances are, if you\u2019re intuiting good character in them, they\u2019ll understand your feelings and give you room to grow into love.<\/p>\n<p>The keys to repairing the situation are maturity, honesty, and respect for each other. With warmth and empathy, you can find a way to share honest feelings with another person. It\u2019s pretty important to be sure of love when it happens. The worst outcome would be to pretend you\u2019re in love and end up in the wrong partnership. No words can fix that, no timing can make it ok.<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;Know love and how it works for you, seek other ways to attain the love that meets your aware Self, here and now.&#8221;\u00a0<\/em><em>\u2013\u00a0<\/em><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=115118&amp;utm_source=blog-articles&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles&amp;utm_campaign=quote-psychic-terilynn-ext-9625\">TeriLynn ext. 9625<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>Still looking for Mr.\/Mrs. Right?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out where and when you&#8217;ll meet them. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>you take a slow breath and whisper, \u201cI love you, too.\u201d But before the words are completely off your lips, your inner voice screams, \u201cWait! 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