{"id":5888160,"date":"2012-03-17T00:00:18","date_gmt":"2012-03-17T07:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5888160"},"modified":"2013-06-05T07:01:34","modified_gmt":"2013-06-05T14:01:34","slug":"speak-up-heal-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/mind-body-spirit\/speak-up-heal-yourself.html","title":{"rendered":"Speak Up: Heal Yourself By Eliminating Negative Aspects in Your Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you feel like a habit, person, or thing is affecting your life in a negative way than only you can make that change happen. This can be a difficult thing to get past but sometimes the rewards are huge.<\/p>\n<h4>Let Go of Negative Attachments<\/h4>\n<p>Mary from Monaghan asks:<\/p>\n<p><em>Do you have any idea how much longer it will take for me to let go of my unhealthy attachments?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Carmen&#8217;s Response:<\/p>\n<p>Hi Mary,<\/p>\n<p>Well, first of all, I am not <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v4\/pickyourpsychic-step1\">a psychic<\/a><\/strong>, and it sounds as if you are asking me to predict when you will be able to let go. Secondly, what unhealthy attachments are we talking about? <a title=\" Get personalized advice from a psychic!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/selectapsychic\/?utm_source=blog-articles-cta&amp;utm_medium=blog-articles\" target=\"_blank\">Get personalized advice from a psychic<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Being able to let go of anything is up to you and to you only. The question you will have to ask yourself is, how fed up are you with your behavioral patterns and the consistent, I assume, negative results they produce? How your life turns out is up to you. It\u2019s not so much a cosmic intervention, but effort, work and the determination to change that makes a difference. Sitting around and waiting for our behavioral patterns to magically change is not going to produce any results. It is the same principle that is mentioned in the <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/04\/sex-and-the-law-of-attraction.html\">laws of attraction and the laws of abundance<\/a><\/strong>. We attract, largely, who we are being, what we believe of ourselves and what we think we deserve. The absolute killer to any growth and success is complacency and the unwillingness to take action; or worse, pointing fingers and blaming.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>So, I\u2019ll ask you again; how fed up are you with your own excuses? There are tons of ways to overcome unhealthy behavioral patterns, but again, all of them require effort, energy, willingness to work on oneself, self-awareness and determination. The more you have of these qualities, the faster you will be able to overcome whatever is in your way. Make the decision and do it; or <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/08\/how-to-release-fears-and-attachment.html\">don\u2019t do anything and your attachments will remain<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychic.com\/survey\/Surveys\/TakeSurvey.aspx?surveyid=1515\">Do you have a question for Carmen? Ask it here.<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h4><em>\u201cLetting go brings you into balance, aligning you with your true self. It is the most natural experience on earth to let go of what is hurting you. Letting go frees your mind of the attachment, thereby filling you with peace.\u201d &#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114927&amp;utm_source=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_medium=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_campaign=faith-quote\">Faith ext. 9608<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<h4><em>&#8220;Going within and becoming the best of who you are is a spiritual goal.&#8221; &#8211;\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114926&amp;utm_source=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_medium=CTA_for_Blog_Articles&amp;utm_campaign=terilynn-quote\">TeriLynn ext. 9625<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=112937&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY $1 per minute. 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