{"id":5888003,"date":"2012-03-11T00:00:20","date_gmt":"2012-03-11T08:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5888003"},"modified":"2013-05-28T15:11:28","modified_gmt":"2013-05-28T22:11:28","slug":"red-responds-hes-in-love-with-someone-else","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/psychic-questions\/red-responds-hes-in-love-with-someone-else.html","title":{"rendered":"Red Responds: He’s Attracted to Someone Else"},"content":{"rendered":"

One reader wants to know if it’s normal to be attracted to someone else when you’re already in a happy and committed relationship. Red offers some insight that attraction is normal, but acting on those impulses is another thing entirely.<\/p>\n

History Doesn’t Always Repeat Itself<\/h4>\n

Sonia from Pune asks:<\/p>\n

Why are people attracted to someone else<\/a><\/strong> when your present partner does everything to keep you happy?<\/em><\/p>\n

Psychic Red ext. 9226<\/a> Responds:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dear Sonia,<\/p>\n

Even in the confines of a loving and supportive relationship, many of us may find ourselves attracted to someone other than our partner. It\u2019s primal human nature. Even when we are committed to our partners and relationship, sometimes we wonder about others, find particular things about another undeniably attractive. As human beings, we are here to experience a plethora of thoughts, feelings, and realities.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, we are drawn to another because of a past-life connections. Other times, that outside influence has physical, mental, or emotional traits we find attractive or desire to experience. Attractions can be physical, chemical, emotional, and\/or intellectual. Some attractions are fleeting, and others have a stronger hold. But, as individuals, each of us has a choice as to whether or not we want to explore an attraction further. Some will, some won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

People are more likely to open themselves to an outside attraction when they are discontent with some aspect of their current relationship, or more often, themselves. Finding yourself attracted so someone else, or learning that your partner is, may not be pleasant \u2013 but it is also an opportunity to know yourself and your partner more deeply. It is an opening for honesty, if there is something lacking in the relationship. It is also an opening for validation; for many will focus twice as hard on their partner and relationship as they sift through understanding why they were attracted to an outsider.<\/p>\n

Just as every person is unique, so is every relationship and attraction. The best way for you to gain more insight into your situation really would be to connect with a psychic<\/a><\/strong> for a personal reading. Getting a one-on-one reading will allow for much more detail and in-depth insight as it pertains to you and your situation. For now, let me just assure you that history\u00a0isn’t\u00a0always destined to repeat itself, and in time, you will find the safety and understanding you are looking for.<\/p>\n

I hope this helps.<\/p>\n

Brightest Blessings,<\/p>\n

Red<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Do you have a question for Red? Ask Red your question now.<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Who is your <\/em>true love?<\/strong> Talk to a psychic and find out. Call 1.800.573.4830<\/span> or choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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