
{"id":5886906,"date":"2012-02-03T00:00:14","date_gmt":"2012-02-03T08:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5886906"},"modified":"2012-01-25T15:27:34","modified_gmt":"2012-01-25T23:27:34","slug":"change-failure-to-possibility","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/mind-body-spirit\/change-failure-to-possibility.html","title":{"rendered":"Change Failure to Possibility"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Psychic Angel Helps You Transform Failures into Positives<\/h4>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/completecheckout\/?extid=9266&amp;nostep=true\">Psychic Angel ext. 9266<\/a><\/strong> is a natural born psychic who has survived two <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/04\/psychic-angels-near-death-experience.html\/\">near-death experiences<\/a><\/strong>. In addition to her clairsentient, clairvoyant, and clairaudient skills, she is also a strong empath. She is very sensitive to people who feel like there\u2019s no way out from failure. Her perspective helps her callers tap into their personal power and move on from wanting to give up. As she says in the video, \u201cIt\u2019s kind of like the light at the end of the tunnel\u2026 do whatever you can to see that light.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When we\u2019re confronted with the looming sense of having failed, it can be very difficult to look for that light at the end of the tunnel, and very easy to want to stay sunken in the depths of disappointment, regret, and self-doubt. But this is the time when it is most essential to dig deep and trust that we can get through this challenge, and look to the light to guide our path ahead. <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/completecheckout\/?extid=9266&amp;nostep=true\">Angel<\/a><\/strong> says \u201cIt\u2019s ok to go through down times\u2026 [but] you have to grow from it, and you also have to figure out what do you want from that failure, and where do you want to go to?\u201d<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\r\n<div style=\"display:none\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\" src=\"http:\/\/admin.brightcove.com\/js\/BrightcoveExperiences.js\"><\/script>\r\n<object id=\"myExperience1071090170001\" class=\"BrightcoveExperience\">\r\n  <param name=\"bgcolor\" value=\"#FFFFFF\" \/>\r\n  <param name=\"width\" value=\"360\" \/>\r\n  <param name=\"height\" value=\"305\" \/>\r\n  <param name=\"playerID\" value=\"1638912460001\" \/>\r\n  <param name=\"playerKey\" value=\"AQ,AAAAEX0RRcE~,dfsdf2unse-SQh9aFG6h1thRWPE8bRnN\" \/>\r\n  <param name=\"isVid\" value=\"true\" \/>\r\n  <param name=\"dynamicStreaming\" value=\"true\" \/>\r\n   \r\n  <param name=\"@videoPlayer\" value=\"1071090170001\" \/>\r\n<\/object>\r\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">brightcove.createExperiences();<\/script><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s true that \u201cwhen we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change.\u201d Change the way you look at what you interpret as a failure, and instead of a closed door, you will see that the so-called \u201cfailure\u201d was actually a springboard to catapult you into a brand-new possibility. So in keeping with <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/completecheckout\/?extid=9266&amp;nostep=true\">Angel\u2019s<\/a><\/strong> advice, here are some tips to jump-start you from a failure to a possibility.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1<\/strong>.\u00a0Focus on what is making you stronger. Sometimes after we go deep and pull ourselves out of a challenge, we get an empowered sense of self and learn what we\u2019re really capable of achieving.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2<\/strong>.\u00a0Acknowledge your feelings. If you bottle up all the negativity, it\u2019ll just come to light sooner or later anyway, and can take a toll on your well-being, physically, mentally, and emotionally. Find a healthy way to release your feelings. With journaling, you can write out all the deep, dark, unhappy feelings, and then crumple up the page and welcome a fresh start! Or do some physical activity, like kickboxing or aerobics, and intend the physical movements to be a release of all the anger and sadness.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3<\/strong>.\u00a0Reframe your situation to transform it into a positive. Was it a valuable learning experience? Did you learn something important about working with new people or a new situation? Did you learn where you can improve? Did you learn what you truly want?<\/p>\n<p><strong>4<\/strong>.\u00a0Welcome the opportunity to be gentle with yourself. Instead of mentally beating yourself up, treat yourself to something special. Maybe an afternoon in the park, a movie, window shopping, spending time with children or your pets. This takes the focus off the negativity, and help you remember to count your blessings.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5<\/strong>.\u00a0Take a solution-oriented approach. It\u2019s tempting to dwell in the despair and guilt if we\u2019ve created a bad situation. Allow yourself a brief \u201cmourning\u201d period to feel bad all you want. Then shift it! Say, what is my new plan going forward to create a new outcome next time? Make a clear, specific plan using everything you\u2019ve learned.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6<\/strong>.\u00a0Adopt a new mantra, such as &#8220;everything happens for a reason.&#8221; Or, &#8220;every decision I make is for my highest good.&#8221; Connecting with source, through prayer, or meditation, can help you connect to the bigger picture too. Sometimes things don\u2019t work out because another door is waiting for us down the bend, and sometimes we need to go through the experiences that at first glance don\u2019t seem to be working out, but in actuality are serving a different purpose. Maybe we needed to learn a lesson, or needed to get clarity on what is really meaningful to us, or we needed to enrich our character and personal strength.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7<\/strong>.\u00a0Don\u2019t go through it alone. Talk to someone you can trust. We&#8217;re all human, and we all have moments of feeling like we&#8217;ve failed. Talk to a friend, a trusted family member, or a counselor. Calling a psychic can help you see more aspects of the challenge that you may not have been aware of, and can help guide you to ways you can succeed next time.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><strong>Find your way out of &#8220;failure&#8221; and into new possibilities.<\/strong>\u00a0A psychic can help you understand the lessons from a challenging situation. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When we meet with failure, it&#8217;s easy to stay in the depths of disappointment. 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