
{"id":5884507,"date":"2012-01-18T00:00:33","date_gmt":"2012-01-18T08:00:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5884507"},"modified":"2012-05-22T12:35:25","modified_gmt":"2012-05-22T19:35:25","slug":"what-men-think-is-really-sexy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/mind-body-spirit\/what-men-think-is-really-sexy.html","title":{"rendered":"What Men Think is Really Sexy"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Get Sexy, Don&#8217;t End Up with Leftovers<\/h4>\n<p>Most studies suggest that men are the least picky of genders, when it comes to what they love about women. The problem is, most men like the same thing, so the women who resemble what the mass majority considers sexy, are the ones who are bombarded by the most attention. The remaining female types end up with the leftovers, which are usually stale, desperate, and broken. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/6-traits-that-men-find-sexy.html\">A sexy woman<\/a><\/strong> is like a reward to a man. The male brain views a pretty face, much like it would a paycheck or a brand new Bugatti Veyron supercar. Let&#8217;s look at a few of the basic rules to being sexy for any man.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Effort Counts<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is the part where I remind you that despite the genetics and hormones that have made you who you are, there is always room for improvement. Studies show that women who make an effort to <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/sexy-head-to-toe-sun-sign-secrets.html\/\">look and act sexy<\/a><\/strong> (private striptease, etc.), are judged more positively by men. This is because men appreciate a woman who cares about herself and how she appears to him. It also encourages most guys to go beyond your exterior, and seek what&#8217;s inside.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sleep is Sexy<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Studies show that no amount of makeup or energy drinks can overcome the extra lines and bags of sleep deprivation. In fact, a group of scientists actually looked at the effects of running on half tank of sleep, and across the board, the women were rated as being significantly less sexy by men.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Positive Thinking<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Men are drawn to women who smile, but more importantly, men can tell the difference between one that is genuine, and one that is forced. They say we wear our emotions on our sleeve, but they are actually painted on our faces everywhere we go. If you are nervous or unsure of yourself in your relationships, guys will pick up on this negative thinking, and rate you as being less attractive. In a sense, <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/07\/your-sexy-astrological-forecast.html\">sexy is in the mind<\/a><\/strong>&#8230; your own mind!<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: left\"><em>&#8220;Whether you want a job, a house, a friend, a mate, lead with your strengths.&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114068&amp;utm_source=blog_articles&amp;utm_medium=blog_articles&amp;utm_campaign=quote-psychic-reed-ext-5105\">Psychic Reed ext. 5105<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;re Only As Sexy As Your Personality is Pleasant<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This may seems obvious as you read this, but I have seen its ill effects time again in dating situations, which says to me that many of us are still more focused on our outward appearance, than our inner personality. No matter what rating you would give yourself physically, add a point or two for being honest, helpful, adventurous, and kindhearted. Subtract the same amount for being rude, unfair, boring, or high-maintenance. In a guy&#8217;s opinion, nice girls don&#8217;t finish last.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It&#8217;s Good to be Average<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The days of sighing, &#8220;Oh, I&#8217;m only average,&#8221; will cease once you read this. After countless attraction studies, scientists have included that the majority of men prefer women who are average in just about every way. Being average is a statement that says, I grew up in a healthy environment, with minimal stress, mutation, and sickness. Men are attracted to familiarity. This means that if you resemble the typical girl next door, a guy will already have a positive outlook about you, and will have an easier time mustering the courage to say hi.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tarnations, Them City Folk Sure Are Picky<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Where you live can make a big difference in your overall sexiness. Studies show that if you live in the city, expectations to have the right body, clothes, and makeup, increase greatly. This is because of the rule of numbers. In urban environments, where our choices of friends and lovers is practically unlimited, women feel more pressure to be beautiful. This increases the likelihood they will seek out plastic surgery. In rural areas, men have less choice about who he ends up with, so it has less to do with who tops his chart, and more with who&#8217;s nearby.<\/p>\n<h4><em>&#8220;When looking for true love, I like to focus on WHERE to look, and WHAT to look at for my clients-it&#8217;s to be very successful!&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=114069&amp;utm_source=blog_articles&amp;utm_medium=blog_articles&amp;utm_campaign=quote-psychic-yemaya-ext-5143\">Psychic Yemaya ext. 5143<\/a><\/em><\/h4>\n<p><strong>Oedipal Complex<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Studies suggest that men are attracted to women who resemble members of his own family (in particular, his mother). This is partially because of familiarity, and partially because of imprinting. The theory of imprinting is that sexual preferences evolve early on in our development. This is the reason why men who grow up as the oldest child in a large family, find pregnant women especially attractive, (and this has been demonstrated in studies). Considering his mother was a symbol of pregnancy for much of his early development, he now has an endearing preference for women with child.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 12px\"><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><span style=\"font-weight: 800\">Have you lost your sexy edge? A psychic can see what&#8217;s blocking the real you from coming out.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: bold\">\u00a0<!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A sexy woman is like a reward to a man. The male brain views a pretty face, much like it would a paycheck. 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