{"id":5884506,"date":"2012-01-27T00:00:32","date_gmt":"2012-01-27T08:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/?p=5884506"},"modified":"2014-01-31T08:48:01","modified_gmt":"2014-01-31T16:48:01","slug":"survive-a-confidence-crash","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/mind-body-spirit\/survive-a-confidence-crash.html","title":{"rendered":"Survive a Confidence Crash"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Regain Your Self-Confidence and Self-Love<\/h4>\n<p><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/05\/the-secrets-to-loving-yourself.html\/\">If you don\u2019t love yourself<\/a><\/strong>, it\u2019s impossible to love anyone else. <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2010\/05\/10-tips-for-self-confidence.html\/\">Self-confidence, feeling that you are truly terrific<\/a><\/strong> and a very special person, is key to self-love. However, there isn\u2019t a human who hasn\u2019t suffered a flaming crash of confidence at one time or another.<\/p>\n<p>You lose your job. You fail in a project that means the world to you. You and your best friend have a huge falling out. Your love life turns to dust. What do you do when you want to paint a big red \u201cL\u201d for loser on your forehead? Toss the paintbrush, and nurse yourself back to confidence health.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Acknowledge that you feel like day-old manure and wallow in self pity for exactly one day. Go ahead. Get a pint of decadent ice cream and a box of tissues. Spend all of Saturday brooding on how truly pathetic you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Next, put away all that angst, no rehashing permitted. Take a luxurious bath, put on something you absolutely love to sleep in, and get a good night\u2019s rest.<\/p>\n<p>In the morning, gather your thoughts and figure out how the situation went awry. Consider, casually, how to avoid the same pitfalls in the future, but don\u2019t pressure yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Get busy the next day or two doing things you like, especially things that benefit others. In bits and pieces, let your thoughts wander gently to how you feel. Acknowledge the feelings but don\u2019t try to change them.<\/p>\n<p>Set aside mandatory meditation time each day for the time being. Find an overcoming obstacles CD you can love. Use it in your meditation.<\/p>\n<p>Set aside an hour to quietly write a written inventory of your finest points. Be very, very generous. Study the list and choose one or two you\u2019d like to enhance.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;One of the most important things I remind people to do is count their blessings.&#8221; &#8211; <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/newcustomer\/v5\/completecheckout\/?extid=5484&amp;nostep=true\">Psychic Quinn ext. 5484<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Find a friend you can trust with your deepest secrets and talk this all out. Tell your friend you\u2019re not looking for solutions or for rescue, just someone to listen.<\/p>\n<p>Write or find some affirmations you can tape to your mirror, load into your phone, and commit to memory. Say them every day until you\u2019re back on track.<\/p>\n<p>It boils down to being kind to yourself. Forgive yourself your mistakes\u2014better yet, welcome them and see how they can help you grow. The best way to bounce back when your confidence is flattened is to bless yourself in the light of your value.<\/p>\n<p>Open your eyes and<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.californiapsychics.com\/blog\/2011\/02\/share-your-heart.html\"> open your heart<\/a><\/strong> to bask in the brightness of your self-worth. Give your soul a kiss.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a title=\"$1 per minute \" href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113977&amp;utm_source=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_medium=NC_offer_footer&amp;utm_campaign=new_customer_text_offer_blog_v5step1\">Exclusive offer: New customers can speak to a psychic for ONLY\u00a0$1 per minute. Select your psychic\u00a0advisor\u00a0here<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-top: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;border-bottom: 1px dotted #c9d9d9;margin: 10px 0px;padding: 10px 4px;font-weight: bold\"><span style=\"font-weight: 800\">Find a renewed sense of self-confidence.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: bold\"> Talk to a psychic life counselor for insights and tips to restore your self-esteem. <!-- ADD COPY ABOVE -->Call <span style=\"color: #ff6600\">1.800.573.4830<\/span> or <span style=\"color: #0000ff\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.californiapsychics.com\/c\/c.aspx?lid=113594&amp;utm_source=blogboxcodetest1&amp;utm_medium=blogboxcode&amp;utm_campaign=boxcode-control\">choose your psychic now. <\/a><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Self-confidence is key to self-love. However, we all suffer a flaming crash of confidence sometimes. 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